if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that?
2006-10-09 07:41:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chances are she still has feelings for the old guy... she just acted on impulse..... I would do myself a favor and move on. Continue to be unresponsive. It is likely that if the two of you got back together she would start contacting the other guy wanting his attention again.
2006-10-09 07:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women can't let go or try to get away with as much as they can until they're 'caught.' Some guys are like that too. She might be holding on to you - trying to see if you've moved on, etc. But it is most likely an insecurity thing. Just don't be the go-to guy unless you can handle it. She may be contacting you for other reasons. If you become the go-to guy then she will use you as a rebound every time she is in between or starting a new relationship.
Can a person act like everything is fine on the outside while they are torn up on the inside? Yes they can guys and girls alike. Some people are better at hiding it then others, though.
2006-10-09 14:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the first question, yes a girl can call her ex when ever she wants it does not necessarily mean there is another relationship. to the second question,if a guy have not sent or returned any calls 4 for months there is a problem.to the third question yes a girl can happy on the outside and be torn on the inside. to the last question yes you can tell if a girl feels like that if she acts different and when she sees you or think about you if you need more advice email me at keyla_brown123@yahoo.com
2006-10-09 14:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Complicated 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK she's calling her ex? but he's not answering? then maybe she's missing him! and she's not sure she did the right thing as far as dumping him for "the new guy" and yes she can act happy and really be torn up inside sounds like "the new guy" is more like a rebound guy and she misses the ex i say if this is you then you need 2 ask her what is her feelings for this relationship and tell her it make you uncomfortable that she is calling the ex and ask her are you wasting your time trying 2 be with her!
2006-10-09 14:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by finenazfuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh no. She has not come to terms with her old relationship ending yet. The fact that she keeps trying should be a huge red warning sign to you. There is something still going on inside of her head (possibly heart) that is keeping her in touch. And yes, a person can put on a very brave front to hide what is really going on inside. The only way to know for sure is to get some honest answers out of her or spend a lot of time getting to know her...then you could tell. Only problem is, then you are probably sucked in and her mind/heart are somewhere else. Good luck......
2006-10-09 14:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act -almost-completely happy and be torn apart can happen.
Happy on the surface can easily be faked. Even to oneself.
"I have a new boyfriend so i mUst be happy"
Try to take away her mask and see into her soul if she is happy with you and sad for the friend she lost, or see if it is the ex that is still living in her heart. It won't be easy, she could feel like being blamed for something.
Good luck mate, Girls are hard to understand, I can know I am one.
2006-10-09 14:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by kobe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If she is truly happy, she wouldn't be calling the ex. And yes, girls can act happy on the outside -- and fool lots of people -- and be very sad on the inside. I guess the way to tell is to talk with her. Ask her how she is truly feeling - explain that you care and really want to know what is going on with her.
2006-10-09 14:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by Giselle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is one way to know what's on a girl's mind: Talk to her! Communication...open and honest...is the only way you're going to know things for sure.
I'd say if a girl is still maintaining (or trying to maintain) contact with a boy she's not dating who isn't responding to her, she has a problem. It may not be the problem you THINK...lots of times we miss people just because they used to be a part of our lives and now they're not. It's hard to let go...sometimes there are parts of a friendship we miss, even after we realize that the other person was a lousy boyfriend/partner. But in order to figure out what the problem IS, you must have this conversation with her!
2006-10-09 14:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by CuteWriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's still trying to get in touch w/ her ex...she's not over him!!!! You need to sit her down and talk to her about everything and let her know how it is making you feel. When you express your feelings, she will open up to you. At that point, everything will come out and you will know if she is faking being happy or is truly happy. But, if you think about it...if you were happy, why would you try to keep getting in touch with your ex? Only if you miss them and hope that you can get something back if you can just have a few minutes of their time to talk about things that had happened. Seriously, sit down and talk to her...NOW!!!!
2006-10-09 14:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by dbosgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I wouldn't be calling if I were completely happy in a new relationship. I wear my heart on my sleeve - so I can't really act happy when I am not. People can tell.
But everyone's different, she could be "acting" happy and be torn up!
Are the new bf? Either way, ask her. You need to know the truth!
2006-10-09 14:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kare♥Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋