My first love was my first time but he broke up with me after three
months of that!!My second bf was a very caring but he sweard and verbally abused me.Now,I like a guy from online,we are old online pal,he shows that he is interested in me,now he wants me to streap on the cam!!!
Its not like that I am very good looking or very sexy person,I am a
average looking student.I want someone will show interest in me rather than my body.
Do I give wrong impression to guys?Or guys just want chance to all girls?
How can I stop this?
2006-10-09 07:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by Layla L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH THIS IS BE AS STARIGHT FORWARD WITH EACH AND EVERY GUY YOU MEET RIGHT FROM THE START.....If your too open ad soft from the beginning then they will see you as a pushover and will take maximum advantage...but if your lay down your ground from d start ...they will still try to take advantage of you....but at least you know you have made it harder for them. My experience tells me that no matter how mr perfect a guy is...at the end of the day the nerd of the nerds still likes his pound of flesh...key difference is a nice guy will try to understand you and will respect your wishes...a bad guy...will lose interest and change there and then!
2006-10-09 07:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time you meet a guy that you're interested in list all the attributes he has that interest you. Find out if you're into him for the right reasons. Most of us get back what we are putting out. Also, be yourself with them. Don't be whatever you have to be to get them because you wont like what they are expecting of you. And don't jump into the sexual stuff. That is a quick way to complicate an already complicated situation. Find out if you're good for each other first.
2006-10-09 07:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most every guy is going to try and get the most he can. Dont give it. At your age, once you give it they put you into the sl*t category. You have to hold out for a long time and the guys who stick around are the ones worth being with. They are out there just hard to find.
2006-10-09 07:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The minute a guy shows this move on. Maybe your boyfriend wants to spice things up ask him to strip for you first. If he won't why should you? There are plenty of guys who don't act like this.
2006-10-09 07:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT strip on cam for him. He is obviously just interested in a sexual relationship. Tell him how you feel or walk away.
2006-10-09 07:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Katyana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are like that and if you have low self-esteem they will use it against you if you allow it. So don't do that for some stranger. Love yourself more then that. First thing to do is tell him to F*** off. That helps some.
Be more confident and don't let people use you!
2006-10-09 07:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop it by denying them sex or stripping whenever the ask. You want a guy that has some class and will respect you.
2006-10-09 07:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
would be a permit down... pray for a 2d wind i'm thinking... do no longer blow me up in case you do unlike my answer the two, a minimum of I had the balls to coach... *exhibits his balls* ... yuk Aussie... whats that around ya neck?
2016-12-26 14:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens to me too:( my 1st love used me, never wanted to commit....i wanna kno the answer to that too...why do average, normal girls get guys that want to commit to them and better looking ones only get booty calls? why cant guys commit to those?
2006-10-09 07:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont strip online for him. that is gross and trashy. screw guys like that concentrate on school until you find a guy that respects you.
2006-10-09 07:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋