We get along great.. have lots of fun together, he says he really likes me.. so whats up? Some people would say its probably cuz hes just after one thing.. but its not like that! We barely just kissed a few days ago! Im confused.. can anyone help me?
2006-10-09 07:33:23 · 19 answers · asked by Zoy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore all the lessie type answers from men haters. Realize that men do not communicate verbally unless they really have something to say.
He is learning about who you are by your actions and how you react to events. This allows him to learn to trust you and how to approach you.
Men need time before they start asking personal questions. They think you are like other guys. Would you expect two men to start talking about their personal feelings and stuff after only a month together? Men don't have a lot of friends, they have one or two really good friends that they've known for a long time that they trust to discuss things.
You need to give him time to feel comfortable around you before he will start asking you personal things. He is actually showing respect for you privacy as he would for any other guy. Don't force him or you'll literally scare him away.
2006-10-09 07:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Right now, so early in the relationship, he is focusing on fun and new adventures. Some guys are like that. After he feels more comfortable with you, he will be more open to asking you personal questions to get to know the real you better.
Slip in just a little personal info every now and then when it relates to something you two are doing together. He will remember and have something to elaborate on later.
Don't worry. Just give it a little more time and be a fun date.
2006-10-09 07:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Pat K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmm.... does not courting recommend "hi i'm attracted to u y do no longer we pass out to kno one yet another extra suitable".... this implies that initially u could hav some feelin 4 the guy u desperate 2 pass out with. yet a guy's thoughts is quite confusing to interpret.....he's the two tryin to apply u (get into mattress with u ) or he truly potential it.Its up 2 u 2 look into his heart and c 4 urself. otherwise to reply to ur question no a month isn't too quickly
2016-10-16 00:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ask questions about him? The best way to find out about each other is to steer the conversation where you want it to go. If you want to have him learn about you than talk about the things you used to do before you met him. Ask questions about him and maybe he'll return the question to you. Its not enough to go out and have fun together, you have to discuss things that are important to you so that you can not only learn about the other person, but also learn about who they really are inside.
2006-10-09 07:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy ok. there are a few reasons for that.
1.) he is shy
2.) he really likes you but doesnt wanna screw up (Might be this one)
3.) wants sex (from what u say its probally not this one)
4.) do u tell him about yourself?
Go out to dinner and talk about each other.
2006-10-09 07:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by elmucki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kinda fun are you having? Maybe you need to just take a walk together. Or visit a museum. Someplace where it is quiet and you can talk. Don't go to the movies, you can't talk there. Maybe he thinks if you wanted him to know, you'd tell him. Guys are just slow. They don't think like girls think. What matters to us doesn't matter to them and vice a versa.
2006-10-09 07:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's too inexperienced with girls to know he's supposed to offer more than being a fun guy. He's probably either too young to know how to socialize with girls, or he's self-centered and doesn't really care to know you very well as long as everything is fun.
2006-10-09 07:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what a woman and a man find important are two different things. a woman knows the favorite color, the first song, the first date etc. men don't find that important. as long as your here, and we are together, whats the problem? there are somethings he needs to remember like birthday, anniversary and things like that. we find other things easier ( not necessarily more important things) like engine size, car color, things like that easier to remember. why? i don't know. maybe its the way our brain works. i wouldn't worry about it. it has to be pounded into us.
2006-10-09 07:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by BIG DADDY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked any questions about him,do you know everything about him? Guys have big egos so ask him some questions about his likes and dislikes. Maybe then he will ask more about you.
2006-10-09 07:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are selfish and don't really care about anything except sports or vaginas.
2006-10-09 07:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋