he's super nice, and when we does hurt her, it's never serious. it doesnt even leave a mark. he just desnt know his own strength because i'm little. how does she make him stop?
2006-10-09 07:27:04 · 23 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LEAVE HIM
2006-10-09 07:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw a line with him. He needs to learn his own strength and treat you right or you can't be with him. Be strong and know in your heart that if you love yourself you have to take care of yourself first. No man is worth letting yourself get hurt over. If he really loves you he'll take the time to learn his boundaries and he wont cross them. If he crosses that line and hurts you then you have to leave him. He may not be leaving a mark on you now but that doesn't mean he wont really hurt you later on down the line.
2006-10-09 07:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i was in a relationship like that before, and it only kept getting worse, first 10 x he never left a mark, but then the 12 x it was serious, and i was sent to the hosp. i would suggest that you get out, and away from him before "YOU" or your ""Friend"" gets hurt worse, no man is worth putting up w/ an abusive relationship, there is someone out there for you, that would do anything, and would never try to harm you. so get out and leave him before its serious, and dont make excuses for him like he doesnt know his own strength!
2006-10-09 07:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't need to leave a mark to be bad. You need to get away from this guy. It will eventually get worse. You cant make him stop, he has to want to stop. He knows his strength and is using it. You should use your brain and leave him.
2006-10-09 07:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off it shouldn't matter if it leaves a mark or not. cause if it continues to happen and they stay together longer it can lead to leaving marks. Second make sure that she is not aggravating him. Mean get angry just as much as we do and to provoke someone is not right. this however does not justify him hurting her. that is WRONG. but try not to put yourself in a situation to where he is provoked.
2006-10-09 07:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by mdbdyot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he hurting your 'friend' or you? there are a lot of excuses to his behavior in your question i.e.: "he jsut doesnt know his own strength...." I have been there. its not just that he is hurting your "friend" but he is mentally/emotionally conditioning her. This is not just a matter of boys will be boys. Dont let this happen again. now that you know its going on, and it is abuse, you have to do something aobut it or you are just as guilty.
2006-10-09 07:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by brightambitions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he just desnt know his own strength because i'm little...."
sounds like your 'friend' is you...
Leave him!
2006-10-09 07:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop it will just get worse. You need to leave him before he hurts you or your friend bad.
2006-10-09 07:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether or not it leaves a mark, pain is pain.. tell him 2 be more gentle, let him know it hurts.... and is it a friend of urs, or u?? ur question implies that maybe it's u.... either way, LOVE should not hurt..
2006-10-09 07:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by costellos_creation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Men should never hurt women.
2006-10-09 07:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him with the problem. If it gets bad call the cops or get a guy friend to be there when you talk to him.
2006-10-09 07:31:47 · answer #11 · answered by KT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋