2006-10-09 06:45:10 · 17 answers · asked by melissa b 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You guys both have a problem!!!
You go to alanon and he needs to goto aa.
NOW
2006-10-09 06:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by ĴΩŋ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that is how u want 2 live ur life and raise ur child!!!U R in 4 a wild & crazy roller coaster ride!!! Think about it. Do u want someone w/ an altered state of mind making decitions 4 ur family???
If he don't get help RUN!!!
Peps want 2 stay together "4 the kids" but if all the kids have 2 see is a drunk daddy... wouldn't it b better 2 have a single,stable,strong mom? If y'all have a boy u will b setting him up 2 b just like him! If y'all have a girl u r setting her up 2 put up w that treatment!Ur baby deserves MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Break the cycle. If u don't love yourself enough do it 4 the love of ur child.In doing this eventually u will find the love 4 yourself!!!
Stand tall and strong...ur baby can't!He/she doesn't deserve the lessons THAT daddy has 2 teach!!!
Bless :) :) :)
I will pray u make the right decision 4 the blessing u have recieved. PLEASE TAKE CARE OF UR GIFTS!!! INCLUDING yourself!!!It ALL starts W/ Mama!
Bless u Mama!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-09 07:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tumbleweed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People with alcohol problems normally continue having some kind of substance abuse problems even if they stop drinking. If he continues drinking he could possible hurt you and/or the baby as alcohol drinking escalates very easily. Get rid of him, move back in with your parents and raise your child. The baby did not ask to have a looser for a dad, don't be a looser of a mom.
2006-10-09 07:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cichlid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have created a situation in which you have a 95% of failure.Be prepared for failure,do not be shocked:only be shocked if you succeed.
At some point in the future you will need to take a good look at things.
If it looks like you need to be alone,then do that.
Make sure that you get educated in a good field,you will need the money.
2006-10-09 06:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Den 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even nevertheless it quite is stressful to work out your mom and dad dealing with this divorce, why can no longer you basically pass away the turmoil up on your mom and dad. there is no longer something which you're able to do and to be disillusioned is comprehensible yet there comes a factor once you basically pass on. possibly you would be speaking on your mom and dad approximately their divorce and attempt to appreciate why they are at this think approximately their lives and function them be sure the subject concerns you have. Your boyfriend could be there to assist you yet no longer day in and holiday relating to an analogous component. in case you may no longer pass on and shop residing in this divorce your boyfriend would at some point have sufficient and could pass away. talk with your mom and dad (in my opinion may be the main suitable ) and get their part of the area. Ask questions, get solutions and pass on with your very own existence. you may no longer restoration theirs and if something they does not choose you to provide up residing because of the fact of their problems.
2016-10-16 00:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a problem,you need to understand the effects of alcohol has on a family.you can make a difference, give him a change or leave for the baby.
2006-10-09 06:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by lydia r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive read your other questions and i think you need professional help..Firstly your boyfriend wont change for anyone,if you cant see that now you never will..Also you should never have had so many pregnancies,what the hell were you thinking,theres so many different types of contraception and the best one is keeping your damn legs shut.
2006-10-09 07:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by misty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a support group that helps people deal with alcholic spouses.
Check out this site: http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/english.html
2006-10-09 06:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by mmshall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and deal with your problems.
2006-10-09 06:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a baby won't make him change, he has to be the one to chose to change first. It could cause you a whole bunch of heartache...when he acts like he cares more about boozing it with his buddies that your guys' babies
2006-10-09 06:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋