She did it with him before she knew me but that was kinda lame. I guess nothing is wrong, but it lingers over me cause she did it with a guy in a car and in public. In my position i cant be with someone like that. She has grown up and all but still........should i ask her why. Why wont she do it in a car with me
2006-10-09 06:42:50 · 21 answers · asked by rOBERT h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, get over it for your own sake and for all our sakes. Just let it go.
2006-10-09 06:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to place this incident in some kind of perspective.
Should she be able to hold grudges against you for things you did before you knew her? I suspect there is something in some aspect of your own life that you did before you knew her, that she could use in the same way against you.
That is stupid.
Why wont she do it in a car with you? You answered that yourself, she has grown up.
Grow up and move on -- if you are serious about an adult relationship with her -- you will find a way to do that.
2006-10-09 13:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by BShakey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what the issue is...
This was before you knew her, let the past lie.
Having sex in a car is not really such a terrible thing.
If they were, as you say both young, the chances are they were doing it in the car because there was nowhere else to do it, plenty of young people do it in cars - older people too for that matter.
You sound like a nit-picking obsessive type, who won't let go of something which is really none of his business.
2006-10-09 13:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by HP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is why we teach people not have sex before marriage... creates insecurities and so...
forgive her, or forget her... it's as simple as that. If you can love her enough, it won't matter. It will be hard to get over it of course, but if your love for her doesn't prevail over your insecurity.
Besides, you wouldn't want to do it in a car with her, it may bring her back... figure out new places... that will be fun and exciting for both of you...
hooray sex!
2006-10-09 13:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want someone who has had no past experience or relationships then go cruise the local elementary schools for ugly 3rd graders. Get over it and move on or don't and let her move on. If you can't handle her past then tell her you would rather not hear about it. I used to have this problem but realized that it was silly to dwell on this crap. How would you feel if you were being judged on your past relationships.
2006-10-09 13:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to explore with yourself why this is really bothering you. Is it because you two have not done it? Are you suspicious of her behaviors? Are you having a moral problem with it? You need to really look into yourself and get to the root of the problem.And than when you REALLY know how you feel, see if you still want to talk to her about it. Because I don't think it is a big deal, but it is a big deal to you. So you need to figure out why.Talk to someone other than her about your feelings.I think you will really hurt your relationship if you jump right in and talk to her about it.
2006-10-09 13:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you cant be with someone who has done something like that before when they were younger. Think about this one, have you ever done something that you shouldnt have? If you are with her, i am guessing that you have feelings for her, if you do, you should be able to accept that people often do things in life. when they are young, then they would if they were grown....but buddy, just let me tell ya, if you cant accept that she did something like that once before you and her ever met, then she dont need ya!!!!
2006-10-09 13:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by merrittmom03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r u serious? instead of getting over it. u shud be jealous and should wana do something kinky like that too! do it in a kinkier place. come on that was like a loooong time ago. dont tell me that u never had any similar sexual experiences that she doesnt kno of. if you didnt then ur just lame.
2006-10-09 13:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by sexy marlena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you imagine his cock inside her and all that sperm when you kiss her, when you go down does she taste slighlty of spunk, do you think she compares your small one with his big one..and tha fact he was exciting and she would do anything for him..did she do Anal for him and not you...does she still think of him whan she is having sex with you...I do not know the answer, but perhaps you should not dwell on her getting it in every orifice while others looked on through the car window...look up 'Dogging" on the net xx Good Luck x
2006-10-09 13:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did she tell you that in the first place? even so, you should get over it since it happened before she knew you. now you should try something even more extravagant, like do her in the bathroom of a major building or somewhere exotic.
2006-10-09 13:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by drr26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to find things like this out. Over time you may get over it.
2006-10-09 13:47:08 · answer #11 · answered by vanman8u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋