2006-10-09 06:24:33 · 14 answers · asked by kayla~N~Chris4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but... I love him so much and really do think if we work on it we will be fine cause it wouldnt be that hard if we just talk about it ,right?
2006-10-09 06:27:38 · update #1
it is very unhealthy,, move on
2006-10-09 06:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not healthy and if you two don't get it under control it will eventually drive a wedge between you.
My husband and I have been married 9 years now and in our early years we fought over jealousy too, it was horrible, we fought almost everyday. Eventually we grew out of it, but it took some work early on. You have to try to let things pass over your head. Let somethings go.... don't hold grudges.... you two will be fine.
Try to trust, cause if you truly can't him, it wont work no matter how much you love eachother. Keep communication open and if you know something will make him mad, just don't bother him about it, unless it's worth fighting over.
Just takes time.
Good luck.
2006-10-09 13:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can work it out but only if you're willing to alter your behavior. Some people enjoy the drama of jealousy but it doesn't sound as if you do so the relationship can only survive if you get to the root of your jealousy and pull it out. Next time you feel unreasonable jealousy take a timeout and ask yourself why. Say the reason out loud and usually you will hear how ridiculous it sounds.
2006-10-09 13:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by impressionist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY VERY VERY unhealthy. NO and I mean absolutely NO relationship is worth fighting EVERY DAY. thats ridiculous... if you two cant work through your problems and trust eachother, its best to end it and look for a mate that you can trust. Good luck
2006-10-09 13:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy has nothing to do with the other person, and everything to do with yourself. It is not healthy, I know from first hand experience. It will only lead to disaster, unless you work on yourself and your issues, how can you been in a happy relationship.
"An unexamined life, is a life not worth living" Socrates
2006-10-09 13:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very unhealthy if you dont have trust then you fight and then you end up fighting over other stupid ****. and one of you in the end wilo be getting tired of getting accused and figure well I might aas well go oin and cheat they are gonna accuse me of it either way so why not
2006-10-09 13:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by zee_68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a sign of a bad relationship. It means there is little to no trust.
2006-10-09 13:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're resolving each issue daily, you should be ok, but if the jealousies aren't being resolved, then you're just going in circles, getting nowhere... & that's confusing... confusion is torment, & torment is not healthy.
2006-10-09 13:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very unhealthy. No trust, no love.
2006-10-09 13:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...maybe once a month...but not daily.
2006-10-09 13:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋