i am sixteen and i am a but my parents keep asking me for a good reason as to why i am like this.....i know the truth but i dont want them to know it yet.
2006-10-09 06:14:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am a ...i am i dont know why the word didnt show up before but i am and i cant reason with my parents
2006-10-09 06:23:40 · update #1
lets try this...iam a LEZ!
2006-10-09 06:30:30 · update #2
when i told my mum i was a lesbian she was shocked but she got over it...in a fashion...but my fiances mum dont know yet n we r scared to tell her...incase she kicks her out...it could go either way... tell her when u r ready...
2006-10-10 02:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by nellluvzkell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, if your ashamed to tell us here what you are, then I would say that your not very proud of it yourself. If must be difficult to get around as a question mark. Is osteoporosis or scoliosis?
You obviously know that it's not the right thing to be, whatever it is, so why don't you go and seek counseling for it, whatever it is.
If you know what caused the problem, but there is still a problem then I would say that therapy might also be an alternative.
I am guessing that your either a lesbian, sado/masochist, or self mutilator.
Or do you like to dress in men"s clothing?
Cross dresser? Just throwing some things out there for ya to choose from.
If its one of these, then other than the s&m, or the self mutilator, I would say its your choice what you want to be, if it's either of the other two, then I would think that your parents would already have you in some sort of psychotherapy.
Another thing, I dont know why you would come here seeking answers when you put out a question that is so vague it's virtually impossible to answer.
2006-10-09 06:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by frankly2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is this, talk to your parents. Do you really and truly understand and accept what you are? If so, then your parents are entitled to know what is going on. Keeping secrets or evading the issue is not going to help matters, both you and them will become distant with each other and they just might make the wrong assumptions. Your parents whether you see it or not just wants whats best for you and that for them is keeping them informed of the happenings with you. I know the adolescent stage in life is hard and peer pressure as well as parents pressure doesn't make things any easier but you have to decide to trust someone and be able to talk with them, why not your parents. I mean sure they might not understand some of what you're saying or where you're coming from but wouldn't you atleast like to try plus you would have maintained that bond.
2006-10-09 06:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you are a vegetarian??!!! That is nothing to be ashamed of. While some people frown upon eating plants because it is cruel, many people are starting to see that man is designed to eat plants...
Just tell your parents that you have decided to become a vegetarian...I'm sure they will understand...unless you are from the South...if you are, they will probably disown you and you will have to run away and find your meals in the dumpsters in the alley behind the buildings in the warehouse district of your town...Good luck finding fresh vegetables in dumpsters...
2006-10-09 06:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Billy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a ????. I understand that your sixteen. But what are you asking. There is a lot of nice people on line to answer your questions and some not so nice. So be patient, ask your question again.
2006-10-09 06:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ,sometimes it takes parents longer to understand somethings ,i am a parent and of a 16 year old and sometimes i want to hide at the things she has done but it doesnt mean that i dont love her im here for her ,and im sure your parents will be too ,if you sat down and talked to them they will understand answer there question and see what they say ,just be yourself honey and god will guide you
2006-10-09 06:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by froggylonglegs2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They also seem to care about you to ask you what is going on. A lot of parents do not care what is going on with their child as long as the leave them alone.
2006-10-09 06:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can we help you get your parents to understand when we don't even understand your question. What are you? Anyway parents will never understand. So stop stressing over it and be who you are. Who ever that is.
2006-10-09 06:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well i need to know what it is ,but if i did know i woul tell them you know i am ure daughter and you should love me no matter what i am where i go who im friends with me you are to help me out and be Parent and friend!! i think that you should help me!!
2006-10-09 06:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by Morgan Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could understand what ur going through im 13 and my parents just dont understand how it is to be teenager its just them trying to run ur life i dont get along with my parents because their alwayz yelling at me so i say hell with it.
2006-10-09 06:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋