because i have gott en lazee. i have gotten so lazy that i wont even flush the toilet sumtimes. too much trouble. but i still bring home the paycheck. so what s the problem
2006-10-09 06:12:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what the problem is so why are you asking us???? Your just using the fact that you bring home a paycheck as an excuse. That doesn't mean anything. You better be careful because your wife is not going to be treated as if she's your personal slave. She can always find a man that will not take her for granted in this way. You are lazy and your nasty as well. What man won't even flush the toilet behind himself??????? You need help and I suggest you get your act together before it's too late. If I was her I would give you a taste of your own medicine.
2006-10-09 06:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a partnership that involves a lot more than bringing home a paycheck. You also have to do everything you can to provide a comfortable place to live, & you should be sensitive enough to know that not flushing the toilet is one way to make the person you live with uncomfortable, especially if it's a woman.
She needs to know that she's appreciated, & laying around the house may be reassuring to her that you aren't out drinking, or cheating, which would give her another reason to complain, but I doubt that she gets a good feeling by you just laying around doing nothing during your down time. By your own admission, you have gotten lazy. Have you ever heard it said that relationships take work. By work, that means paying attention to her, helping her around the house, & making her environment in the home a pleasant one for the both of you.
Good Luck Man!
2006-10-09 13:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention your age and people asking questions should remember to add that info to get a better answer ,,,,,, Sometimes when people get like that it's due to a lack of a proper diet ,,,,, Or a chemical imbalance ,,,,,, When you become so lazy or lethargic that you don't even do the things you like to do or enjoy ,,,then you definitely have a problem ,,,,,Whens the last time you've had a complete physical ?? Could you stand to lose a few pounds? ,,,,,,, Do you smoke or addicted to nicotine in some other form ,,,,,,,Previous answers center mostly around something being wrong with your head or showing concern for your wife's position in this matter ,,,,,, Well your problem is your wife's problem too ,,,,Making it better for you will make it better for her too and the head is not the only part of your body ,,,,, You need to see a physician to be checked out ,,,,, This behavior could be the first signs or symptoms or fore runner of something serious starting to develop ,,,,, Think about it ,,,, What you do to remedy this problem will eliminate your wife's problem with it too ,,,,,All the other answers or comments are shooting at the target so to speak but they are missing the mark ,,,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2006-10-09 13:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do work all day, yeah, but she probably feels like your slave. You realise you're too lazy at the moment, and no one wants to flush the toilet for another person. It's not exactly romantic. If you want her to be happy you have to at least clear up after yourself, or she will feel like you're taking her for granted.
Why do you think you can't be bothered to do these things? Is it because you don't respect your wife? Or maybe you are very sad at the moment? Try to figure out why you are in this situation and sort it out. Good luck.
2006-10-09 13:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Wanttoknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were lazy at work, you would get fired.
Why do you think you can be lazy in a relationship, let along a marriage. Bringing home the paycheck isn't everything in a marriage.
2006-10-09 13:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by exel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure she works around the house all day ,and then have you come home and be lazy,it takes a second to flush the toilet
faster then it took you to walk to the bathroom.lol that would be the problem i think lol
2006-10-09 13:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being lazy makes everyone upset, and if u;ve gotten lazy at everything maybe u wont be bringin a paycheck anymore, think about it man, get ur stuff straight and really think whats best!
2006-10-09 13:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by el_oso_candeloso 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont even flush the toilet I mean gee whiz thats lazyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. There is a lot of problem there
2006-10-09 13:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by ImSpoilednLoveit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Paycheck or not you still have to be decent. Talk with your doctor maybe there is a reson and he can help.
2006-10-09 13:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by firebirdstevev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being lazy ...what if she starts being lazy around you?
try to be nice....this bothers me cuz this is how guys get after marriage... while you were going out with her...you werent lazy so why are you now? cuz you got the chick? c'mon stop being lazy if you lover her you will..just help around
2006-10-09 13:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋