lets just say u had two bestfriends a guy and a girl and sometime along the line they became closer a couple years go by and they decide to get marry now u secretly was in love with the guy friend would u stay quiet and let them get marry for fear of ruining a longterm friendship or would u sacrafice your friendship for true love now remember this guy could be the one
2006-10-09 06:10:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no such thing as "the one", "mr right" etc,etc..i wouldnt tell them because feelings can come and go,i'll just go out and meet someone who can love me right and that i feel comfortable with...
2006-10-09 06:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by penda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him. If you don't do it now and they get married, you'll regret it for the rest of your life with "what could've been". He could feel the same way and doesn't want to say anything because you haven't. And if he doesn't, bow out gracefully and congratulate your best friend on winning a great guy. It may ruin the frienship but sometimes taking big risks are the only way to get great rewards...
2006-10-09 13:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by skybelle24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the mistake of not telling my friend my feelings for him. Years later I found out he had the same feelings but now its too late. I didn't want to lose him and now I barely talk to him so in the end I was the big loser. Tell him how you feel, you never know what could happen
2006-10-09 13:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-09 13:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by hh h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question should be are you willing to take the risk?
How will you feel?
Have you talked to them?
Are you willing to never know the what ifs?
You need to find out, if not years from now you will be wondering what if i had...
Just do it, what do you have to lose? I understand the fear of losing your friends, but take the guy aside and talk to him. Let him know you never know unless you go for it!
2006-10-09 13:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them get married... If it took you till they were finally engaged to be married to realize that you wanted to be with one of them.... then its too little too late. Obviously they care alot about eachother to get engaged to be MARRIED... so I say Dont say anything. Keep it to yourself and next time you like someone, make your feelings clear up front and not wait till the last minute when they've fallen for someone else.
2006-10-09 13:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a direct person, I never beat around the bush, all this time you waited you could have let the person know. Are you now jealous of the relationship? I would leave it alone, you have waited too long..........your time is up.
2006-10-09 13:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
should have spoke up sooner - now you should just keep quiet and learn from your mistakes - obviously he doesnt feel the same way or he would have let you know as well before he dicided to marry your friend
2006-10-09 13:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never enterfere with 2 couples
that r getting married
thats just nasty
lets say I REALLLY LOVE HIM
but that my bad luck he doesnt love me!
get it?
2006-10-09 13:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time waits on noone so just beat someone else to the punch next time. Don't interfere!
2006-10-09 13:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by TC1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋