Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
Is this actually a way of flirting?
Also, when she isn't messing like this, she is more serious to me than others, she tells me if she is feeling bad.
2006-10-09 06:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is either flirting with you or she looks at you as a very close,devoted, & trusting friend. If you like her as just a friend, or more then just a friend then why don't the two of you have a serious discussen about it and find out if it is only friendship or if it may be something more? If she is able to speak freely & openly to you then there should be no problems.
Good Luck!
2006-10-09 06:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that her way of flirting. she's hitting on you what reason? you may want to stop her from hitting on you before it gets serious. thats causes alot of problems down the line if you let it continue. talk to her about it. Flirting is basically showing affection to the person that you may like or show interested in. I hope that answers your question.
2006-10-09 13:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by nephi_91185 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like flirting to me
2006-10-09 13:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by ImSpoilednLoveit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just goofing off. I know I do that 2 my guy friends all the time. I also tell them How I feel and expect them to help me feel better if I'm feeling low. So honestly I don't think she means anything by it.
2006-10-09 13:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she drop kicks you and beats the crap out of you, then you know it's love. For now, it's flirting. Mess with her too but be gentle, we women are delicate flowers (teeheehee) It sounds like luv baby
2006-10-09 13:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like flirting to me, sometimes ppl have a weird way of showing affection. ask her to the movies or a dinner date , see how it pans out, goodluck
2006-10-09 13:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be an abusive girl. From what you say, she looks up to you and values your opinion. If you like her, next time she tells you she is feeling bad, put your arm around her. If she dosen't object, she likes you.
2006-10-09 13:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jokerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i use to do my friends and my boyfriends that way when I was in high school so it could be that she is just comfortable around you.
2006-10-09 13:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by yrunosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play back a little bit and see if she likes it
2006-10-09 13:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_thang_gurl2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r soo weired
relax
thats not flirting I use to do that!
so what...............
2006-10-09 13:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋