my bf gave me his password to his email when i looked in it i saw a few date sites but the ones that bothered me the most was the men2men sites where he had posted his profile to meet men in his area he said he did it a very long time ago but there had been "winks" in his mail from just yesterday but not opened. my bf was so jealous that i had a few male friends email me or IM me so we exchanged passwords so he could see i was not cheating on him or doing anything sexaul online but i think what i found i should be worried about boyfriend said he was just wondering about the male gay sites and has no gay bone in his body i say WHY have profiles on 3 gay sites then if you just want to know about it? IS MY BOYFRIEND GAY OR WHAT?
2006-10-09 05:49:25 · 17 answers · asked by Majenta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is bi. cuz no straight guy would make that mistake 3 times. 1 time i can maybe understand but 3 times, you need to get rid of him b4 you go home oneday and see him in bed with another man.
2006-10-09 05:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put virginity up on a pedestal like it was something special. It isn't. Its a lack of experience in a situation where experience is beneficial. You're 18, and you're ready to do what your hormones have been telling you to do for quite a while now. The simple fact of the matter is that sex is best when you do it with people that you at least like. Being with total strangers is an activity that is better for more experienced guys. Having a selective attitude about your first time is not a matter of making it special or meaningful. Its just a matter of having a good experience as a way to avoid being discouraged. I suggest that you wait for college to happen. College is a great environment to start exploring your sexuality. Make the effort to meet some gay guys. Find guys that you actually like. You will be much happier pursuing a sexual relationship/one night stand with them then with some stranger on craigslist. Your first guy doesn't have to be special or meaningful to you. It would just be in your best interest if you had the chance to examine him and spend some time in a social situation with him before you go hopping into the sack.
2016-03-28 02:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not sure he's gay... but you can bet on it that he's BI. No normal straight man would EVER post his profile (especially with pics) on a gay site. Not even a joke. Men are very very VERY sensitive about their sexuality! Ouch! Sorry!
2006-10-09 05:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is not gay but bi sexual meaning he like to give as much as he recieves ,eww thats nasty you might want to get a check up with the doctor,it must be hard for you to deal with this but ,if it was only 1 site i would say curious,but 3 hello thats a red flag,that means he prob. has been smoking some mans pole
2006-10-09 05:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by spinininthemud 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be bi-curious. I'd be a little worried if I found that. It's almost like he wanted you to find it when he gave you the password.
2006-10-09 05:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sydney'sMommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably just curious, and wouldn't have the nerve to do it...even if he did, he'd make himself sick. Actually believe it or nat, alot of guys expeience that curiosity....but very few physically act on it. I wouldn't worry about it...What's the worse that could happen....he could brink home another hunk for you to play with! lol
2006-10-09 05:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it said he did it a long time ago- he's bisexual. Or at the least just curious- at most a closet homosexual. Honestly you need to be asking him instead of internet strangers. Good luck.
2006-10-09 05:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by lix321 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay or has gay tendencies, save yourself the heartache and use a W4M site for yourself. (unless you are ok with the thought)
2006-10-09 05:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, if it looks like a duck, talks like a duck, and smells like a duck, it's a duck... Confront him about it, because even if he's not gay, he is obviously having gay thoughts and is curious.
2006-10-09 05:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lolo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not gay but Bi-sexual. Go with the flow and ask him to have one of his friends join in.
2006-10-09 05:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by Joesmoe 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋