murder your husband or boyfriend for your kids lets just say your man was very abusive physically and verbally towards u and your kids and u try everything running away calling the cops would u do it to saved your kids
2006-10-09 05:43:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
If I had to in order for protection for me and my children then yes I would.
2006-10-09 05:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are programs where women will help u run away and give u new identities, but if murder were the only option than make sure it's because of self defense. if he physically abuses u take pictures so u have something to back up ur accusations, self defense is hard to prove unless u have proof. call the cops whether they do anything or not it'll be on record. join battered womens programs i know they'd be able to help! Good luck no women and child deserves to be beat.i would kill any 1 for my kids!!
2006-10-09 05:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have more options then you think. Killing a spouse or boyfriend is called murder and the chances of conviction are high. You risk imprisonment and being away from your child. How does that better the situation? It doesn't. It is a lose lose situation. If you want to save your children start putting the pieces together now. Contact your local police department and battered women shelters. The risk is too high!
2006-10-09 05:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm guessing you're married. Make as many police reports as possible. Go to a hide out shelter for abused women and children. MURDER, NO! Don't you want to be there for your kids??? If you do that then you'll be locked away and your kids may end up in a horrible enviroment. Get smart, log everything, get a divorce, and take the kids from him, get a restraining order, etc....
2006-10-09 05:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Maryjane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no mudering! that way you'd only getting down to his level. You are a intelligent woman and need to take care of your kids. Go to the police station, report him as many times as you can or contact social services if he's being abusive to your kids, dont let anything happen to them. Try to relocate your family away from him, where he cannot find you. Dont you have any relatives or someone who could help you while you get this worked? I'd do anything to save my kids, even killing him as my last resource, but think wise!!
2006-10-09 05:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just dumb, why kill one parent and then have yourself go to jail for the rest of your life. dont you think that would put your kids through even more. Not only that mommy is a murderer but now mommy is in jail.
there are ways to get names changed and to move away. Typically most abused woman go back to their abuser.or they let them selves be found.
move to a diffrent state or to the other side of the country. change your names and get the authorities in on it. if someone is abusive enough to make you want to kill them. you need help.
2006-10-09 05:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by Cyndi s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kill to save my children. Just as I would die to save my children.
The thing is, if you are in an abusive relationship, your partner shows his true colors usually before kids are in the picture. Why would one have kids with someone like that? I have been there, and I know there is a feeling that maybe a baby will straighten them out. It usually makes them worse, though. I was lucky enough to not have kids with my ex.
2006-10-09 07:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would but I might call the cops before murder. Men like that need help if you are thinking about this i would call the cops first cause u will go to jail and that'd we horrible for your kids and they need you as you need them
2006-10-09 05:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is really happening you need to report him, take yourself and the kids to a woman's shelter, they can help you out. Murder isn't the answer, your children will be without both parents and most likely put into state care facilities.
2006-10-09 07:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe many parents both male & female would if they honestly felt there was no other option to save them. But it would have to be an absolute last resort because as the other person said, then you would either be in prison or on the run and that is not going to be stable for your child either.
2006-10-09 05:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by KB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Murder, sure. Then send his body to the police. With the way the postal system works they'd never receive the body. Evidence would be lost.
Please if you are serious get some help from the police and women's shelters.
2006-10-11 04:00:45 · answer #11 · answered by kajunmommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋