I'm posting because I'm bored and it really has nothing to do with me.
There was this part time youth pastor age 25, and this 19yr old girl that just graduated highschool two years ago. He'd lead this 19yr old on, flirt with her, make her feel he's interested in her. When she confronted him, he denied it all and really avoided her like a plague as if he liked her but didn't want to admit it. His leading ons and denying it lasted for a whole two years. He'd even tell her his sexual struggles too.
A year ago, since she was used to the fact that "not everything appears the way they appear to be" she was raped because she did not pay attention to this other guy's advantances because she thought he was joking like this youth pastor did.
So what does his behavior mean? He'd email her 11+ times a month, lead her on, give her long glances with big eyes and a big smile, feeling chemistry between the two, taught her the wrong things that got her in trouble, confided in her?
2006-10-09 05:32:59 · 5 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
**confided in her about his sexual struggles
2006-10-09 05:33:41 · update #1
he also flirts with his other youths and denies it.
2006-10-09 05:34:40 · update #2
This behavior is not uncommon in youth pastors. They want to have the thrill of a girl (or guy) interested in them and then they want to pretend like they are completely innocent. It is a hypocritical and deceitful behavior. I would like to slap their faces for doing this game playing.
2006-10-09 05:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by a_delphic_oracle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone needs to bring this to the attention of the lead Pastor of this church. He is exhibiting inappropriate behaviors. And he needs to be stopped, he is still human, however, he is held accountable for his actions. And perhaps removed from his position. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-09 12:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has a lot more things on his mind than serving the Lord. He needs to be removed from that position at once and this black mark needs to follow him wherever he goes henceforth.
2006-10-09 12:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by crowbird_52 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means...
he does not practice what he preaches
he is NOT a good example of a youth leader
and that he needs to be reported to the leaders of the church
2006-10-09 12:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by kenny p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He played with her mind.
2006-10-09 13:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by blessedroad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋