kids involved.her mood swing.difficulty with affection toward me .always want to spend time her mate.all these combined toward are split.i still love and thing she love me too.she just wanted time apart she said.
2006-10-09 05:24:56 · 9 answers · asked by simon_johnstone_1 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
cut her................a piece of cake
2006-10-09 05:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by jimmythebullstromboni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depression and related mood disorders are very hard on friends, loved ones and family.
First you can educate yourself about the type of depression she has- is it cyclical? Does she take medication for it? Does it come from an outside cause (death/loss/grief etc)
Then you can look into support groups for family and friends of those who have depression- many major hospitals offer such groups, as to other local agencies. Call around to hot lines, mental health agencies and such and ask.
If you love each other and are taking time apart, consider individual counseling for yourself, so you have direct and immediate support for what you are going to go through. The kids may need someone to talk to as well, and hopefully your partner has both an individual counselor and a group for whatever she needs.
Couples counseling can either be wonderful- or it can suck- no other way to put it lol. If you choose to seek couples counseling you must be able to go in with either clear goals, or the concept of creating clear goals. Depression support may be your best bet.
hope this helps.
2006-10-09 05:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Max 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
True friends will, Key word: eventually, tell you what they are going thru. But with depression they do need time to them self. Sometimes when friends have been around each other too long they do need to spend sometime apart. I've learned that the hard way,
And now i've lost a past friend that I will never see again. But with true friends when I see that we need a breather from each other we will take a break from a few week's and not see each other then meet up again. Its ok to not see friends here and their. Its ok to take time apart. (Personal Experience)
2006-10-09 10:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi simon,
Not sure this sounds like depression. Do you know how she is like with her friend? but it sounds like she needs to go and see her gp, or a counsillor, do you know if anything has happened in her earlier years that has somehow comeforward now?
Take this from someone who has panic attacks, severe depression and anxiety - all from being bullied in the workplace.
If you can - talk to her and see if she will go and see someone who is a professional in this area, both going together may help, especially as there are children concerned.
Good luck, i think you are going to need it - but be supportive yourself towards her, and maybe go and talk to someone yourself please.
2006-10-09 05:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by jaynie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anti depressants dont artwork they make you prefer to kill your self so dont make her take it you are able to tex and make contact with generally like asserting goodnight the style you feeling make her snicker only cheer her up and tutor which you will continuously be there for her even however your not there there as in in her face stunning there
2016-10-19 02:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time.
This does not sound like depression, it sounds like she wanted out of the relationship!
2006-10-10 00:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully while you are have some time out she will realize how much she loves and misses you.
2006-10-12 09:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Candy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she hates u bud otherwise she wouldnt care about a silly argument!!
2006-10-09 05:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Adriaan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her bum sex
2006-10-09 06:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋