my boyfriend whp we have had a rock last couple of months, but always seem to work things out, told me a week ago, that i would not find him on any dating sites, like i have before, well i have on a LOT of them! he also took me out for dinner saturday for my birthday, and when we went to go rent some movies to take back to his place, he was flirting with the cashier right in front of me. and when i said something to him about it, he just said, that he didnt know he was flirting. I am thinking of telling him to hit the road running, what do you all think?
2006-10-09 04:59:41 · 11 answers · asked by merrittmom03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it. Now.
You deserve 100 times better, and it sounds like that wouldn't be hard to find. He's probably cheating on you, so you're better off without him.
2006-10-09 05:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is bothering you that much... then you should look for someone else. This is just his personality, some people are just that way when they talk to other people... I believe him when he says that he doesn't realize that he's flirting. However the dating sites are a different story... You have to have trust in a relationship and if you can't trust him it isn't going to work.
2006-10-09 12:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One that I used when I was threatened by a GF
Don't let the door hit you in the A S S on the way out.
Enough, as they say, is enough. a little flirting and looking is fine but with the on line dating thing it is enough.
There are many others out there.
2006-10-09 12:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on your relationship. My ex used to flirt with girl in front of me all the time, but I didn't care. I knew that if one of the girls called his bluff, he would get scared and run..lol. He was just funny like that and I totally trusted him. There is nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting, you just have to be secure with yourself and your relationship, but if it really bothers you that much tell him what you see as flirting and whats not. Everybody see's things differently
2006-10-09 12:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure he is flirting and you are not just insecure the believe I would move on. There is no need to stay in a realtionship that is hurtful to you. Wont be easy but in the end you may be a happier person.
2006-10-09 12:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by doicu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would really be both upset and hurt. What an asshole. He is totally disrespecting you in all different levels. The best thing for you to do is to send his @** packin! Do it before things get more out of hand and you catch him cheating on you
before it hurts you even more. Think about doing anything you do before actually doing something.
2006-10-09 12:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweetestcandii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he has told you that he didn't know that he was flirting with the cashier, why not give him another try to see if he will do it again.
2006-10-09 12:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. Why would you want to date a guy who is putting himself on dating sites???
2006-10-09 12:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hesitate to put him in the road. If you don't have trust, you might as well call it quits because you'll be miserable wondering what he is up to next.
2006-10-09 12:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not true to you,stay with him if you think he's worth it,leave him if you think your worth it,,
Don't you think you deserve better?
2006-10-09 12:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋