well, there r these 3 guys..
2 of them r fighting over me, and the other i have a small crush on, but i dont know if he likes me.
now, for the 2 fighting over me...
one is a crosscountry/ hockey star, and he goes to my school and is in like all of my classes. he's the sweetest guy ull ever meet, and would be approved by my parents and all that good stuff.
the second guy is a basketball star, he goes to another school (so if we broke up it wouldnt be that bad lol) he's cute and he's also really sweet, and i feel more protected around him. my mom doesnt know if she wants me dating someone from another school.
the first guy just asked me out.
the second just kissed me.
the third guy that i have a crush on is hot, popular, reeeally nice, and im not sure if he likes me.
everyone, what should i doo????
i like the first and second guy alottt but equally. the first guy will be looking for an answer tomorrow.
HEELLPPPP!!!
2006-10-09 04:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First Guy.
If you pick the second guy, you'll see the first guy all the time and it will be awkward, but the second guy doesn't go to your school and you'll never have to see him.
Pick the one you get to spend the most time with.
2006-10-09 05:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Crushes very rarely have a clue you are interested so if you are, you should make a move.
2) as for the fighting forces It seems to me you like the second guy more but I'm not sure if he is really into you. Guys don't usually just kiss a girl they are interested in dating, I mean think about it the usual protocol is a date then a kiss. I could recommend guy number one he sounds nice and is clearly interested in you, you seem to like him but, it really comes down to what you want. With guy 2 you are being tempted by the idea of rebelling against your parents, and with guy 1 you are finding nothing really wrong so you are wary. Sorry to not be of more help. Good luck
2006-10-09 04:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to make your mind up! As for the guy who wants an answer tomorrow, let him know that an ultimatum will not help you to pick him over everyone else. Let him know that these things take time and you do not want to make the wrong decision. Second of all, it is not about who your parents would approve of, its about who YOU would approve of. Who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Also, I would ask guy number 3 what his feelings are for you in return...that way you will know where you stand with him as well as number 1 and 2. Also, do what is in your heart, who can you see yourself dating and possibly having a serious relationship. And if you just can't pick after thinking about all of this, then it is best to let them all go and just be single. You don't want to hurt anyone any more than you have to.
2006-10-09 04:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should take a whole day or two sit down and think about how u feel about them and the different experiences uve had with them and ull eventually come to a conclusion on who u hav stronger feelings for and who will treat u the best and when u decide just tell the 1 and forget the other two.we all know dont make thses kind of decisons when ure mad especially at them so do this when in a good mood. and dont look at whole better looking, more money..... etc and dont get confused by infactation jus remember this and ull do jus fine
2006-10-09 04:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by pinkdraws_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like the first two guys, or do you just want to choose one so you'll have a boyfriend? If it's the latter, just stay single. It's not fair to the guys otherwise, and if you do find someone you like that likes you back, there'll be so much drama.
Honestly, I'd say to say no to the first two guys and ask the third, the one you do actually like, out. Don't worry about the incidentals. It really doesn't matter if the guy's popular, a basketball star, in your school, whatever. If you don't really _like_ like him, it's a bad idea.
2006-10-09 04:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a wonderful dilemma. Here's what I think. Don't worry about the third guy. He's just a crush. Number two... no. See, you yourself mention the possibility of breaking up in the future with him, so that's like a hint of things to come. Don't go there. Number one, that's the one. The fact that your parents like him says a lot to me. Your parents would want only the best for you, wouldn't they?
Best of luck!
2006-10-09 04:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First RELAX!!!
Second have FUN. Don't stress yourself over guys. It's great that you are getting all this attention and you like someone. But you shouldn't be worrying about it.
Have fun by knowing that you have the power to chose who you want. So what you do is KNOW ALL YOUR OPTIONS. Don't jump into a relationship with one guys. You don't know them very well. Instead take your time and get to know them all as friends. Because the one you think you like may not necessarily be the one you will work out with best.
So go out there and ENJOY THE GUYS but be stress-free about it!
2006-10-09 04:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if someone is pressuring you for an answer, then you need to realize that they are NOT for you. and im sure he's nice, but you can explain to him that you don't know what you want, so its unfair to him.
secondly, just because someone likes you, doesnt mean you have to like them back, thats a sign of attention and neediness.
you should go for the third guy, the one YOU like, and take your chances there.
someone's heart will be broken no matter what you do, so you may as well choose the one who you are interested in.
2006-10-09 04:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by strawberryblond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be this hard to make a choice.like the other girl said love is your best bet,but you haven't dated them so u more than likely don't love them.When you decide who you want,think about the little things that you like a guy to do for you.Like which one makes you laugh and if you cry whos there for you.Or when you're sick who comes by to check on you.You know nice things that catches a girls eye.
2006-10-09 04:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the 1st guy b/c he asked you 1st and it would be wrong to break his heart like that !! b/c if he is a nice guy he deserves a good person and you said that ur parents would prolly approve it would also be akward goin to the same school and him liken you and you liken him so i think that you suold pick the 1st guy
2006-10-09 04:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by baby gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋