but i dont love the idea of my little girl getting to know them my mom is a pill poping freak my dad a stoner i havent seen in years and my step dads and crack head and thats juston my side of the family my husbands side his mom was a crackhead that got murdered and his dad was a pedifile.am will i be wrong for just telling my little she doesnt have grandparents?
2006-10-09 04:19:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
yes, it doesn't matter, my dad sexually abuse my sister and I and he is in my wedding book and baby books. I hate him a lot, but my son and daugther should still know who he is even if they don't see him.
2006-10-09 05:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would put their names in the baby books... some people like to know where they came from... AND at some point she will have a school project that will ask for a family tree! there's no sense in pretending they don't exist (on paper!).
one day future generations will not know about the bad habits of these people when they are researching birth certificates and death certificates... but the names need to be accessible!
2006-10-09 04:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of how you feel about your family, they are still your family. Putting their names in your daughter's baby book is only a matter of fact. They are part of her family tree and she will want to know the names of her grandparents even if she doesn't know them personally or they are never in her life.
2006-10-09 04:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put there names. Something for her to have and not a blank space in her book. When she is older just tell her they are not apart of your lives and why. She will understand and know that drugs are bad.
2006-10-09 04:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by AM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making this up. Nobody has a family that bad!
2006-10-09 04:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋