To not call your bf on his bday, if he has really made you angry? I mean I wouldn't just not acknowledge it at all...I would just send him a text message because I don't want to talk to him! Am I wrong for not calling him or will a text message do? I am not trying to be mean but he has really upset me.........
2006-10-09 03:45:25 · 26 answers · asked by Shannon83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is wrong. You sound like a little girl holding her breath until she turns blue.
If you are serious about your relationship, then talk to him like an adult and get the problem worked out. Right now, you're having a tantrum, and yes you're trying to be mean. You're trying to get his attention by turning it around and making this day about you. That's just silly.
Cowgirl up and call him. All you have to do is say, "I'm just calling to wish you a Happy Birthday." Say it like you mean it, don't say it in a way that will provoke a fight. When you have calmed down, and after his birthday, you get together and say, "I've been angry with you because you did this...and it made me feel..." and you work it out like grown-ups.
If he did this to you on your birthday, you'd be pissed.
2006-10-09 03:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to continue with the relationship than you should definately send him @ least a text message or hes going to get the impression that you care more about yourself than you do about him and the relationship...and furthur down the line he will remember that you did that and maybe treat you badly on your next b-day...
If you don't want to stay with him than dont send him anything and just end the relationship...it would be a real shitty time to do that to him on his b-day, but thats up to you ya know...
Its my ex's b-day wed the 11th...and i've been kinda talkin to him again for the past couple months...but the past week we havent really seen eachother and he didn't answer my phone calls yesterday...plus he has a bunch of girls that harrass him all the time, so im upset with him about that but i think im still gonna tell him happy b-day, i just think its better to be the bigger person...plus even though he's an asshole sometimes i do care about him...and i wouldnt want him to ignore me if it was my b-day just cause he was mad @ me for something....if he did i would think he didnt care.
Good luck hunnie :)
2006-10-09 10:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're right to at least acknowledge him on his birthday but I would'nt go out of my way to do anything special for him since it sounds like he really hurt your feelings. Then again, I believe in choosing your battles wisely. If what he did to upset you was really bad, then I think a text message should be enough and he should feel lucky to get that.
2006-10-09 10:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen.. if he upset you.. then let him know that you're not interested in him until he apologizes.. that 1 thing apart from your question.. ok ur question.. No u should not call him, a text message is even maybe too much.. just send him a message saying " Happy birthday ".. nd tht's it i am sure he'l be callin u bak askin whats wrong.. all u got to do is show him or tell him u're upset.. nd u guys will work it out
Good Luck
2006-10-09 10:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kissss_My_Asss 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love him, I would still call him. I would tell him that he upset you and how. You should always try and talk things out no matter how angry you are. The key to a great relationship is communication. Good luck to you both.
2006-10-09 10:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what happened & how much of it is your fault. Some day your fight will seem stupid & silly, but he's gonna have more birthdays and remember the one where you didn't vocally wish him a happy one! Remember that! Is it worth it cuz you're upset? Don't forget how things can seem like a big deal at the time but then later us humans are wondering what we got so upset about!!
2006-10-09 10:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't worry. Couples argue lots of times. That how you get into marriage, and if you think arguing as a couple is bad? Well think about it once you two ever do get married.
But to answer your question, its okay to say "Happy Birthday" In any way you want. It just shows him that you still care about him even though he has made you really pist off. Don't worry about it and calm down a bit, he'll get over it someday.
"Welcome to the Couples world of life, You don't like it? Then your not meant to be a couple" -Marian A. Marvinson
This is really true up top, I found this quote on the .net and its quite true.
2006-10-09 10:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What was the argument about? Is the relationship more important than the argument then if it is call him if not send him a text message
2006-10-09 10:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by AlabamaGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just all depends on how you feel. But I would just send him a text message if your that angry with him.
2006-10-09 10:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by sexymama05112005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try to never part angry. you never know what will happen. you may not get the chance to appolagize. call him but let him know you are still angry. you should work it out a.s.a.p. how would you fell if he didn't call you on your bday and h is mad at you?
2006-10-09 10:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by BIG DADDY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋