she told me everything....she told him to have sex with her. She 's not really the most decent person, but she is my friend. She only wants to marry him so they can have more sex. I don't think they are going to get married though, thats what she said. But she only likes this guy because of the things he does to her. She has sex when her parents aren't around, and she said I should try it. I tell her no! It's not right to have sex at this age, and I think I'm going to tell her parents......but then she'll hate me D: I'm so confused
2006-10-09 03:42:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I really don't think that you should tell her parents. They are not going to be able to stop her from doing it anyways. All you are going to do, is loose a friend and up set her parents. If that is what she wants to do with her life, then let her. Tell her your point of view, but let her make her own decisions. Everyone has to learn from their own mistakes. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, so just worry about yourself, and keep being the smarter one.
2006-10-09 03:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her parents if you care enough about her and know its wrong.But talk to her first and find out for sure that she is having sex.Sex is wrong if you are outside of marrage,no matter what age you are.If she knows you really care about what she's doing and wants to be friends with you she will listen to you and stop having sex, if she wants to keep the relationship between the two of you,even if you do tell her parents. Sex is a gift from God for two married people to have after being married,not before. People are making sex a game and entertainment and God will judge them for having sex outside of marrage.
2006-10-09 11:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by littleshygui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you have given her your advice, then let the chips fall where they may. If she is too young to be having sex, then certainly she is too young to get married. When men know that women are easy, why should they buy the cow when they can h ave the milk for free?
2006-10-09 10:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if they are haveing unprotected sex then yes tell her parents my sister is 15 and now she has a 4 month old and if my parents would of known then they could of got her put on birth control yeah you friend will probably be mad at you but its really in her best intrest
2006-10-09 10:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just how old are you? If you tell her parents then you are going to lose a friend. Find out if she is at least having safe sex.
2006-10-09 10:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its not really your business to tell her parents she's having sex...how old are you? you should hint to her that she should tell them so they can discuss it more with her. Sounds like you are young, you shouldn't be worried about sex, good for you for saying no! Sounds like she's confused, maybe ask her if she needs to talk, she might open up a bit. If you give her advice and she doesn't take it, it is not her fault that she gets herself in "trouble" (i.e. preg or std).
2006-10-09 10:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by zoe and skylar's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just a sex fiend! But... uh, why would she want you to try it? Doesn't she have any decency at all? But I'm not going to insult your friend. Anyway, it's up to you whether you tell them or not, or you could try talking to her to her first and tell her how you feel. A friend shouldn't hate you for just expressing your opinion.
Best wishes.
2006-10-09 10:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by "Teh" Leester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to ruin her life let her!!!
ITs her decisions...and if she's in a monogamous relationship with this guy and they BOTH decide to go to the next step then its none of your business
Regardless if she only like him b/c of the sex he jus has to open his eyes....obviously he's not complaining
And even if she's TOO YOUNG in YOUR opinion you ARE NOT her...so jus live your life and leave your "friend" to live hers
2006-10-09 10:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Chocolate Model Intellect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your own business. the only person that her impending pregnancy is going to effect is HER and the ignorant boy she's having sex with. let them ruin THEIR lives. best advice, don't tell ANY parents just voice your opinion to your "friend".
2006-10-09 10:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school counselor. He/She should be able to help you. He/She might pull your friend in for a discussion or maybe help you inform your friends parents about her actions.
2006-10-09 10:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋