My 4 year old was sexually abused by a 16 year old. I have already done what I needed to do. We have gone to 3 court appearences already and still in the process. Now she does things that she was taught by the boy. I do not yell at her, but I have a son and things she wants to do because he has something that she does not have. I need some advise about helping her ease her way from doing it to herself.
2006-10-09 03:24:51 · 12 answers · asked by nbubbyjak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes my daughter is in cousling I put her in it once I had found out. I knew that was one thing she needed.
2006-10-10 04:11:54 · update #1
I have a 4 year old foster child who was sexually abused...it is hard to deal with and I am so sorry for what has happened to your daughter...but councelling is really the best option. It's hard for them to understand at their age what has happened...but it's something they should deal with as children rather than adults. Also, she is just practicing what she has learned. Some of it is self discovery the other is sad to say...what she learned. Get her into some type of counceling / therapy and she will be just fine!
2006-10-09 03:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sad to hear this - I admire your bravery for going to court to stop this pervert- I would let the son know not to let her do anything - if he is old enough= I would ask a good child or family psychologist or check out Focus on the Family= james dobson has probably heard it all- and he is wonderful!There are weird and strange counselors out there so be very careful- take care- D
2006-10-09 03:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Diane W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a 4 year old and trying to deal with this on your own is a lot on your shoulders. I would get you both in counseling. You don't understand how much counseling is worth. Make sure you get to a good credited counseler. If you go to one and don't like him/her, don't give up. Find another. And good luck.
2006-10-09 03:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my heart is breaking for you and your family, I think that maybe this is a bigger problem then you alone can handle, seek counseling for her and your family. this doesn't only affect you two, I am sure everyone has issues to deal with. I am so sorry.
2006-10-09 03:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by need2knw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs counseling. It's good that you aren't yelling at her. She needs professional help Good luck.
2006-10-09 03:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling services are a must here and aslo your 100% suppot to get through with her.
2006-10-09 03:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be in counseling, and I believe that you do as well so that you know how to handle her and what she is going through. Good Luck!
2006-10-09 03:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you have her in counseling because she is going to need it to deal with what has happened to her. Good luck!
2006-10-09 03:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by donna h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help.
2006-10-09 03:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why isn't this child in counseling?
2006-10-09 09:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋