i'm christian and i like to enjoy S3X with my gf .
so what's wrong with that is something natural and we love each other and it keeps our stress low . ????
2006-10-09 03:14:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
**** you , the hell is not real . i dont believe in craps as much you believe
2006-10-09 03:20:15 · update #1
You're allowed to type sex, by the way.
and there is nothing wrong with it.
2006-10-09 03:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, if u dont believe in hell, then what are u worried about? If ur trying to find excuses to have sex then do it and dont worry about it, I answered your question the firt time u asked, told u my opinion but i see that ur dwelling on this subject a little too much so just do what feels right for you and move on. Ur right, sex is something natural (God never said it wasn't) But he did state that it was something for couples to enjoy, not for horny teens. Its something sacred, I think, that u save for when u get married. And about the "keeps our stress low" dilema, Hunny there are many different ways to keep ur stress low, if thats ur issue. Join a basketball team or something.
2006-10-09 10:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, sweetie, call me a prude, but at least wait until you're legal. According to your profile, you're 16. You're not ready for the responsibilities that will accure if the condom breaks or she forgets to take her pills. If you two really love each other, you can wait the last two years.
And yes, I know some people will say that 16 is just fine, that you're practically an adult, but that's still too young to be a parent if anything happens. And just think of the mental scaring on your girlfriend if she gets an abortion.
2006-10-09 10:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by sister steph 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's just meant for marriage. There's nothing wrong with it, it should just be used in marriage alone. It's like tylenol. If you use it as directed when you have a headache, your pain *should* go away. If you don't follow the directions, you could not take enough and still be in pain, or take too much and OD. Sex isn't bad, it just has it's place in a marriage. I know people who waited, and I know people who didn't. It can work either way, but the people who waited seem happier. Even if they only had one sex partner, the people who didn't wish they had. Make sense?
2006-10-09 10:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by teeney1116 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with having sex with your girlfriend if you are both consenting adults.
However, if your religion teaches that having sex without being married is a sin, then you either need to stop what you are doing or find a new belief system. As I understand it, to willfully defy what the god you believe in has commanded, yet still claim yourself a believer, is hypocrisy.
2006-10-09 10:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Chickyn in a Handbasket 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At this point I have a huge question as to your salvation.. You don't act Like a christian having sex outside marriage. You don't talk like a christian if not saying vulgar things inferring them. If you want the joys of the Christan walk it's time to get straight with Jesus. If you love your girl so much whats wrong with marriage? Jim
2006-10-09 10:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, according to the scriptures, you aren't supposed to do that till you are married. But, I can't judge you, because I live with my bf too, only I am 48!
But, my thoughts are, if you are good to each other, & you are not sleeping around, go for it. Just be careful not to bring a surprise child into the world. Be safe & plan well...
2006-10-09 10:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am also a Child of God. I believe if you and her are in love with each other with all of your heart and soul, than in God's eyes you are already married. Jesus did not say you needed a piece of paper to prove your love, like "man's law" does. Be free because guilt is from the enemy.
2006-10-09 10:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by artist_eye1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the issue? S3x is supposed to be enjoyable. If you are using it to keep your stress low that is another issue that you should address.
2006-10-09 10:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by phjamo2021 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in heaven there will be no s3x, i know that sucks but thats how its going to be because we will become angels and we will have a garment of innocense like adam and eve before they had sinned and saw that they were both naked
also you have to be married in order to have s3x because then thou is breking a commandment of fornication
2006-10-09 10:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by lil kid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alrighty, look, I am a Christian myself and i have friends who have that same faith. So okay, my friends and i love each other, but at the same time, we should already know that Jesus loves us and we have to return that. The thing is, it is okay to like someone, but as Christians ourselves, we need to focus on God and to serve him and if your girlfriend doesn't have the same faith but you know she is the right one, then I think you should pray for her and observe carefully if she is your future spouse. In the meantime, do be aware that because of your faith you should keep your virginity until you get married if that is your question.
2006-10-09 10:27:01 · answer #11 · answered by angel_love_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋