Well me and my ex had a bad break-up and I'm just to myself now, not even trying to look anymore, but the feelings for my other ex is coming back for some reason, I guess my love never changed should I try to talk to him and work it out if he want to, but at the sametime I don't want to get hurt again. But at the same time I have a friend but he's not a type of person ya'll see me in a long relationship with, what should I do?
2006-10-09 02:54:39 · 23 answers · asked by babycakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let your heart be your guide and your soul your anchor. Take things slower, you are moving too fast. I think that you are afraid of being alone and now you think that you have feelings for this guy but you don't. If he really loved you then he would make an effort to mend things. Don't be in a hurry, of course you will find love. Love just does not know how to read that damn map to your heart that's all. Be patient, Mr Right will find and he will knock you off your feet.
2006-10-09 03:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard having relationships and dating and finding the right person, my experience has been that either it really clicks and happens or it doesn't. If things didn't work with your ex, what makes you think that a second try will work. You really need to understand why it didn't work out with your ex and before you can try to go there again. Finally, a friend is a good thing but many times I see men or women that have great friends and they don't see them as partners, if you don't see an attraction as a partner then this is also good. What other ways have you tried to meet new people?
2006-10-09 03:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and Mister Right will find you. Don't be in a hurry to get back into a new relationship. Just go out and meet new people. I always thought that i would be single forever. I had almost given up on Love. When i stopped being so anxious about it, i met a wonderful man and we have been married for 4 years.Just give yourself some time and you will be happy again.
2006-10-09 03:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by donna h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might be lonely, which of course is understandable. but they are called "ex" for a reason. it's better to wait and see if you are thinking about the old ex because you are lonely. it's ok, even good to spend some time with just you. if after a few months you still haven't met someone, and you still have that ex on your mind, then talk to him. but make sure you talk it out and see if the reason you broke up in the first place is still an issue. good luck.
2006-10-09 02:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally it's not about Mr. Right. It's about you. The only way to feel that you've found Mr. Right is if you've found Mrs. Right in you. Once you're there, the right guy will find you and it'll work out. Love shouldn't need so much effort, especially at the beginning. So if it's not working out, let go. And look inside yourself before you start looking outside for him...
2006-10-09 02:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by CH 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I can understand from your question, you're pondering over 3 different men, perhaps 2.
IMO, you should just be by yourself right now and give it a break from men for a while. One shouldn't jump into rebound relationships, it's not fair for either party.
Your official question can be answered as a "yes". Of course, Mr. Right might not be available as he might be with his Mrs. Right (which isn't you). Just because you find him, doesn't mean you'll be fortunate enough to get to have him.
2006-10-09 02:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pffft don't listen to Voltar, everyone will find their Mr.Right. U're just looking at the wrong places, just let things flow have some fun while u're single, go to clubs, go party, go do watever u wanna do, no one's holding u back now. When the time comes Mr.Right will show up sooner then u think sweetie.
2006-10-09 02:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop searching so hard and let mister right find you. Sometimes when you look for something it doesn't come but when you take your mind off of it appears out of no where.
2006-10-09 02:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be happy with yourself. There comes a time when you realize being "single" is pretty nice! You have the freedom to come and go, do or not. When you smile with being alone, then someone will come along and cause you to want to give it all up!
2006-10-09 02:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Over time you begin to long for your ex again. This is because you're bored. Find a hobby to take your mind of things.
2006-10-09 02:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by kimchee_boi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋