i got offered a job in italy at time i left bf off one year we said wed make it work i ended it couse he wasent sortin a job or house out like he promised he would i got
raped came back asked2 start over again he said no met a girl got her pregnant but he says he still loves me i love him to what do i do
2006-10-09 02:54:10 · 15 answers · asked by crazygirl3k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow...bit hard to know what to say, sometimes people make mistakes and its usually only after they have made the mistake that they realise it. Just follow your heart your only here once! good luck!
2006-10-09 03:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do?? You pick yourself up and stay strong. Keep you head held high and keep walking. It is going to hurt for a while, but you will find someone who is worthy of you and respect's you for who you are. If he truly cared about you, he would have kept his pants zipped up or took a cold shower. You deserve so much better and you will find it in time. Find someone who wants to spend time with you instead of give you a huge run around. Off coarse he loves you. He screwed up and I am sure he does deep down inside, just as well as you do. But the fact of the matter is, it probably Will not work. He has a child coming and are you ready to be a step parent? I hope you keep on going!! Don't get tangled into the Drama. It will suck everything right out of you... Stay Strong and Keep your head up!!! Good Luck
2006-10-09 03:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go so he can be a good father to his child, and you can find the happiness you deserve. That really is more important than anything that may have been between the two of you. I am sorry about your bad experience in Italy, but don't put all your eggs in this broken basket. The eggs will definitely fall out and break.
2006-10-09 03:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key bit seems to be "I asked him to start over again, he said no".
He may say he still loves you, but it sounds like that's just a lie, either to avoid hurting you (as in "I still love you, but my life has moved on now...") or to get you into bed (as in "I still love you. How about a quickie before I go back to the mother of my child?").
Either way, painful as it will be in the short term, you'd be well advised to move on and try to find another man, one who will be there for you when you need him, and without all the baggage of a child by another woman.
2006-10-09 03:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by gvih2g2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want him back? He would still have contact with the other girl and the baby for the rest of his life.
Also, theres the risk that if he ups and leaves her when shes pregnant then he may do the same to you if a better offer comes along.
2006-10-09 03:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Catwhiskers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you. I would pick myself up, dust myself off, and start all over again. There are so many people out there, who are probably a lot better/nicer than he is. If he has a girl pregnant let him get on with his life with them. He has moved on, do the same honey. Enjoy your life.
2006-10-09 02:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope he doesn't for your sake. You don't need a love with baggage... that's a terrible way to start a life with a man... find someone new so you can fall in love get married and have a baby of your own....
2006-10-09 03:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, You lost him. He may love you and probably always will, but you left and and broke up with him. He moved on found someone else he loves and there is no question about that. Now it is your time to find someone else you can fall in love with. Good luck
2006-10-09 02:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by nbubbyjak 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him, that's it. Although what happened to you isn't good you can't expect your EX to pick up the pieces for you.
It's unfair of you to try to get back with him considering what is going on with him in his life really. Although you may not think so now you will get your life back.
You just need to try to get that stability back on your own though.
2006-10-09 03:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u really want the sczz bucket back wake up and smell the roses love he is a waster
2006-10-09 03:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by screamingkidz4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋