If I meet a girl for the first time and I find that I am really attracted to her and want to get to know her better "Not for a 1 night fling" but possibly (unless she goes crazy on me) to make her my beaux, what are some things that I can do to gain an advantage? Give me some idea of what you would expect from a guy when he tries to holla.
2006-10-09 02:48:05 · 6 answers · asked by Man under fire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be her friend first. its not hard to show her your interested, just ask her out. if u dont want to scare her off, invite her out with friends. tell her she can bring her friends too. she will feel more comfortable in a social setting getting to know you the first time or two. then invite her out during the day. night time dates to chicks can sometimes mean "oh oh theres a chance he just wants me in bed" red lights go off in a cautious womans mind. so keep the first few dates lunch time dates. go slow, she will know that you are being a gentleman and appreciate that she is worth the effort.
Be yourself. its not your looks, money or job that is important. its your Character. and if your honest about who you really are from the start, then it makes for a very good relationship later on. theres no nasty surprises or shocks. Just be real with her. i mean sure, a lady likes a cute guy, and a nice car, she likes her meal being paid for, but its not her main concern. make the effort to look presentable, you know dont be all sweaty and smelly, use deodorant and keep your face clean shaven or neatly trimmed, if you respect yourself she will respect that.
just be real, be a gentleman, and ask her questions. get her talking about herself, about her life. most women LOVE that. if she is hesitant, dont push her, tell her something about yourself and try asking another question after that. give her lots of oppertunitys to talk. tell her she looks amazing if she does, but dont go on about it, you will make her uncomfortable.
be honest, thoughtful, real
2006-10-09 03:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ,all of the women I know prefer porper English.If proper English is not used it sounds more like a line than anything more.FOR example "Hey baby do you have a minute so I can holla at ya.OR Excuse me I was wondering if you would be able to spare a minute, I would like to get to know you better....POINT MADE
2006-10-09 09:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by thunder_rainclouds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i expect a man to speak intelligently to me and not use street slang.....this isnt a ttractive on a man unless you own a record label and have an entourage or you are a rapper with a hit on the billboard hot 100....otherwise it just looks and sounds stupid!
2006-10-09 09:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF SHOW ME THE REAL U SO THAT i WILL NOT BE DISAPPOINTED WHEN i BECOME YOUR BEAUX, NO NEED TO GAIN THE ADVAVTAGE IF YOU HAVE PLENTY TO OFFER.
2006-10-09 09:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by borrowedtime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...maybe be romantic and make her feel she's a princess...listen to her and be a friend above everything else. Dont cheat on her and dont ever lie to her.
2006-10-09 09:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
make sure you detail your jacobs ring that day, and put on your rolley watch.
Also, get your cadillac detailed, and leave a few benjamin rolls hanging out your pocket.
2006-10-09 09:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋