This is nothing but a HYPOTHETICAL question.........
It isn't real..... don't accuse me of being a cheat...........I'm not one....
please answer honestly
2006-10-09 02:42:34 · 26 answers · asked by Kristal L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know u wouldnt cheat on me baby...u dont regret saying yes do u? i love u. xxxxx n i think i cud 4give u if u di cheat...maybe...
2006-10-10 02:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by nellluvzkell 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that the person should break off the engagement and the relationship as a whole because the person is clearly not ready to be settled down so they should leave the person alone and be single so they can do who ever they want whenever they want and not have to worry about answering to or breaking any ones heart. You should never cheat, cheating shows you that u really don't want to be in a relationship at that point or at least not with that person.
2006-10-09 02:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should break off the engagement, actually the entire relationship, and step back to see what she needs to do. She should see whether she should be single for awhile. It wouldn't be fair to stay in the relationship while so confused, it isn't fair to the man. If she really loves him, then she'll let him go rather than be selfish... If it is meant to be then it will happen again, but right then might not be the time to jump into marriage.... Marriage is eternal, and a big commitment, its definitely not something to play with. (not to worry I do not accuse you of anything, this is an important question to think about!)
May God bless you and keep you safe!
Much yahoo love!
2006-10-09 02:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically, you should do what needs to be done. If this is the last thing you need to do to feel that everything is OK, I would say go for it. But just remember eye for an eye and karma is a b*tch. Dont forget about that little girl in your head either. She can really bring the guilt I would imagine. Once is forgivable, twice is deadly. Good luck with your hypothetical situation.
2006-10-09 03:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by mrmotionchevelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she really be in love yet want to be with someone else? Either she is not really in love, or she isn't mature enough to handle a monogamous relationship. If the need to cheat is there, then she should break off the engagement.
2006-10-09 02:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If "she" cannot get past this imperative need to cheat, then "she" should discuss the issue with her fiancee before anyone gets hurt.
Maybe he's ok with it and the two can reach an agreement. Maybe he won't be ok and the marriage is cancelled.
In any case, honesty is a much better option than doing something on the back of that someone you love.
If this "she" is dishonest to her fiancee, that's a sign that she doesn't really love him that much.
2006-10-09 02:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically speaking, if she is tempted to cheat, then she should break off her engagement untill she is sure of what she really wants ...
While on a break - it isn't called cheating!
2006-10-09 02:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by masteroflisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well.. i don't think that you can be in love adn still willing to cheat.. honestly tho rite?? like if you LOVED i mean REALLY LOVED a person, you'd never want to do anything to hurt them. your life would basically revolve around the person. There is nothing like true lvoe, and if a person thought or thinks they are in love, then they aren't.. its not a maybe if think kidna thing. its a i know no doubt no questions asked type of thing.. you wouldnt cheat, or do anything to try and ruin the relationship..
2006-10-09 02:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by holly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that person wouldn't really be in love, doesn't respect the person they are engaged to enough to end the relationship before pursuing others, and then I would say if you ever felt anything for your significant other don't cheat.
2006-10-09 02:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Rod H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
temptations will come wether your married or not. its what you do with that temptation that makes all the difference.
the world around us encourages lust and immoral sex and affairs and the mystery of something new and secretive. We are faced with temptation every day in some area. but heres the thing about temptation, it all starts with a thought. with your mind. if you cut it off right there, then theres no problem. do not entertain the thought and you will be safe.
thoughts come, push them out. wether your married or not.
i would suggest mastering that art before you get married. Concentrating on your partner is much healthier. if a tempting thought of a hot stranger enters your mind, remind yourself that you are human, dont beat yourself up about it, just replace the thought, immediately, with thoughts of your partner, of good things about them.
train your flesh to shut up, and your heart and committment to rise up.
have integrity.
2006-10-09 02:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if someone is tempted to cheat, then they are missing something in their relationship. Or not ready for a serious commitment.
2006-10-09 02:44:45 · answer #11 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋