Usually I never get past the first date. Everything seems to go well and then I never hear back from them. My heart is broken every time. Now I've found a girl and we've been on a couple dates and I had dinner with her family last night. I'm a little shy and nervous around her like I was with the others. So I think she might do what the others did and might stop corresponding with me. If that happened my heart would be shattered into a million pieces. I'm so worried about it I can't sleep well at night. Please help.
2006-10-09 02:17:53 · 9 answers · asked by Gen Xer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first take a deep breath. So far she has not stopped contact, and it ais a very good sign that you met her family. Just calm down, nothing freaks a girl out like being smothered. Go slow, you are doing fine.
2006-10-09 02:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on guy!....you are a man why fear and weaken on this thing, you know what, if you still nervous about it, I think your fear will come true!....there will be a lots more for you to be afraid of, I think you have very low self-esteem and self- confident(please don't angry me)*If you are a woman who live aboard has little son to bring up on your own with no family, and now being left pregnant alone, and you live surrounding with UK people ,there are some people have a very negative thought and attitude with Asian people,especially with Asian girls, they think that Asian girls come to UK just for visa and live in UK claiming benefits, and now you are in the situation having a new baby, which they think and say that 'these girls' wanted to get pregnant and get a council's house and live on benefits, How you would feel huh?.......We have too many fears in lives*If you are not get rid of this fear, you will never be a happy person!, and if you are not happy....imagine....who would like to be with you?
2006-10-09 09:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by SERENE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can leaver her alone for awhile and a few days like three days from today call her again and tell her that the dinner with her family was great as the food was yummy and suggest meeting up again for a movie or even a coffee, as long she doesnt feel pressure from you. and best of all take it slow, you do wish to give her the scare.
2006-10-09 09:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing you did when you said your heart was broken every other time. Heartbreak is a big part of life whether our spouses or kids, jobs, whatever. It takes some gettiing used to, but we do.....
2006-10-09 09:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to understand what it is that drives these women away in the first place.Maybe ask your friends if they think there is something wrong with you.I dont think its only cause you shy that your dates dont work out.Its something more.Thats why we date...so figure ourselves out and to learn from past experiences.Take what you have learnt and apply it to your next date!
2006-10-09 09:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be yourself. You might talk to a 'best friend' and ask if there is something about you that turns them off. Is there something you can improve upon? I'm not talking about changing so you become someone you're not. I'm talking about identifying your good points, and putting them forward.
2006-10-09 09:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this young woman,than you should be confident
that you have been with her longer then you have been with others.If you see sighns of breaking up,then try and make her feel like she is loved.If she breaks up with you,life goes on.Maybe
it is for a reason.
2006-10-09 09:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by PatO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking negative. i do the same with u.i keep thinking that everything will end and he will find other girl!!and am so unhappy when am thinking this.so enjoy ur life with her and dont let the bad thoughts to destroy ur dreams!!
2006-10-09 09:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus relax mate, she is still thr. Gals admire confidence in a man and its good sign dat she let you meet her family.
2006-10-09 09:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by original 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋