Ok a few weekends ago I went to see a friend of mine and her roommate was like really hot and nice, I really wanted to just talk and get to know him but my friend said no he is dating someone and they are having problems. So I said ok and let it go! Then my friend and I went out with her boyfriend and I met a really nice guy we talked forever and he made me smile. I liked a lot of things about him, but at the same time I still thought of her room mate. Anyway her boyfriends friend invited me to a wedding and I said yes! So I went this weekend to go to the wedding and the day before the wedding her room mate texted me on my phone saying he was single again? So the night before the wedding her and her room mate and I went out to a club, him and I talked and danced and laughed and I liked a lot about him. Then the guy that asked me to the wedding came where we were and I am a women of my word so I did go to the wedding with him. Two men what to do? Help shed some light please!
2006-10-09 02:15:45 · 10 answers · asked by heart2heart27958 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The wedding was this weekend, and I did go, but I did tell the other guy that I had to stand by my word. He said it was ok but I just wish I would have known he was having trouble with his girl or that he even liked me.... My friend is telling me that the first guy is not stable and I should find someone like her room mate that is?? Guys how do you like two guys at the same time for totally different reasons???
2006-10-09 02:24:58 · update #1
that's great you kept your word. That shows integrity. I think you should be honest with them both. If you just want to date and get to know them both, tell them so. Be careful of the one that just broke up with his girlfriend. rebounds can be very hard and hurtful. Nothing says you have to pick one over the other right now. Get to know them both. Put it in the Lords hands and he will put it heavy on your heart in due time who is right for you.
2006-10-09 02:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Torrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the roommate then you need to be honest with the friend. because you don't want to lead him on. let him know that you will stick by your obligation and go to the wedding but you just want to be his friend. Then let the room mate know that you had made this commitment to to friend and you didn't want to go back on your word so you are going to the wedding. tell him how you feel about him
2006-10-09 02:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-29 05:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are watching Grey's Anatomy - Meredith has the same problem.
2006-10-09 02:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by eeaglenest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only be friends with them and get to know them and who you like better get with him
2006-10-09 02:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say dating your friends roommate could get complicated in the long run..
^^^^^ oh, man... put it away
2006-10-09 02:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
room mate - cause it seems like you are more into him...
2006-10-09 02:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by JUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick one. Don't try to date both.
2006-10-09 02:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget ............
2006-10-09 02:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by sathish_969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do both!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-09 02:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by hot_girl_10179 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋