2006-10-09 02:04:50 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congrats Michelle, years is NOT much difference.But try tactfully to wean him away from his homo tendencies .
2006-10-09 02:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not the only one that this happens to. Every women has that one gay Friend that they wish were straight. they seem to be the only man on the planet that understands you, makes you laugh, and respects you. "The Best Friend". That is what every female wants from a male partner. And because your male friend does everything that you need it is only because he is gay and wants the same thing out of men. It will only get better. You have found what can be the best friendship of your life. treasure it and keep it fro what it is, friendship.
2006-10-09 09:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see where the question is. He's gay, you're a woman, he is not interested in a relationship with a woman (unless it's purely platonic) so find a heterosexual man and be friends with the gay guy. How can you be in love with someone that doesn't love you back. It sounds like you're attracted to him which is understandable, but love? By the way, don't get into the "I can change him" mode, you can't so don't waste your time.
2006-10-09 09:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy. I think every woman gets a crush on one gay guy or another at some point. They are so much fun!! I know that is a generalization, but it's true.
Try to move on there is no hope. You can't change him.
2006-10-09 09:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by rucirius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, since he is 8 yrs. older than u, he is probably using some kind of mind
control over u, but then again if he is a good person, and treats u like a
Princess u can end it anytime u wan't to .Keep condoms for your self, u
don't wan't aids, or the clap.
2006-10-09 09:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by SEERAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have many Gay friends, and I have at times wished a few of them we not gay.....but unless you find a bisexual that you like it is hopeless.
Then you have to also live with his being bisexual......something that can be odd around the family dinner table on Thanksgiving.
2006-10-09 09:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant imagine. Hard as it may be to move on youre only ever going to be best friends with the guy at the most.
2006-10-09 09:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you are fresh outta luck. he is gay adn you arent a guy. that kinda puts a damper on it. my suggestion is to just be his friend. gay guys are the best friends in the world. they'll take you shopping eat icecream with you when your sad adn be able to talk girl talk with you... just watch will adn grace. good luck
2006-10-09 09:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that one............
one of my friends met a guy, and he seemed prefect in every way
but he is gay. She married him not knowing. And it has been a night mare for her. And she too is in love with him.
2006-10-09 09:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear..so sorry...maybe let this move into the ..he's your best friend in the entire world catagory because you'll never get from him what you want/need...
2006-10-09 09:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by OliveRuth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋