How to flirt with a guy?

Question

How do you flirt with a guy? Also, is it true that guys find it really sexy if you bite your lower lip? Thanks in advance for your help.

Answer 1

Steps
Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence.
Try to touch him whenever you can, on his arm or wherever else. Don't make it too obvious.
Play with your hair or clothing.
Talk sexy around him to get his attention, and lick your lips, but don't change your voice too much. This can be a turn-off. Instead, just sweeten your voice a little, make yourself sound happy.
Once you've got his attention, look him in the eyes and smile. If he smiles back, slowly look down, and repeat. Guys like girls who can show off their smile.
Don't make it too obvious when he's around his friends, unless you know that he likes you.
Laugh with him, and help him to feel comfortable around you.
Find a reason to whisper something in his ear.
Don't try to be someone you aren't. You attract the kind of person you are. Don't pretend to be a sportsy type when you're really a poet.
Talk about what you have in common, and ask questions about what you don't. People love to feel like they're interesting. (And heck, they probably are, too.)
Say his name a lot. This shows you're interested in who he is. Give him a nickname, so you two have a little inside joke to share. Most likely, he'll give you one, too!



Tips
Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
Don't try too hard to impress him.
Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
Don't flirt with someone else's boyfriend or husband it only leads to trouble.
Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you!
Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc) so that he'll want to join in.
Change your tone of voice when you're around him.
Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
Massages are always nice.
Tell him you had a dream about him. If he finds this kinda creepy, then just say it wasnt 'about' you, but you were there!
Don't apply lipstick, chapstick, or lipgloss in front of him.
Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation.
Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count!) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together!) feel she went in the exam?"
Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him!
Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.
Hint about a movie you'd like to see.



Warnings
Be careful that he's not leading you on so he can make a fool out of you.
Don't dress like a slut or skank, instead leave a little to the imagination
Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend who will be a snob to you, if she finds out you've been flirting with him. She will have the right to be a snob to you, you're invading her relationship.
Certain boys can sometimes be very unfair! So be careful if you tell any of his friends!
Boys act differently around their mates.
If his friends don't like you but he does you shouldn't let him keep you a secret. this just shows that he isn't proud of his woman and you want someone who wants you for you and doesn't care about what others think. You don't have to rush to say that you're in love or not; so don't trap him.
Don't pretend to be interested in something just for the sake of flirting - if you decide to make a move, it might mean you end up pretending to be someone you're not.

I fyou bite your lower lip, sometimes it attracts guys but sometimes not.

Answer 2

Use body language as a form of communication. Get in touch with men - progressing from an initial contact

Win men’s heart - appreciate the things the man does for you
If he takes you out for diner, tell him how good the food is, how nice the restaurant is, how much you are enjoying yourself, anything positive about the time you spend together is good.

Make men attracted - tell him he looks good.
This is great because if you say something like: "I really like when you hug me for no reason" he will feel happy because you are pleased by him, and so he will do more of what he knows pleases you.

Answer 3

Biting the lip thing can only be done in certain situations, so give that a miss for now!Be friendly and approachable, drop in an inuendo. Play with your hair - guys love that, smile sweetly, touch his arm as you chat. Let him know you have something else on your mind with the look in your eye. Make him notice something that you are wearing - like, do you like my new perfume, and let him smell your neck. Works every time.

Answer 4

speak, smile & wink to start with. Then leave little notes for him to find when you're not around, small inexpensive cards or gifts, just something to show you're thinking of him. Leave him a message on an answering machine when he isn't there to answer the phone, it will make him sile when he gets it.

Never really found it sexy to have my bottom lip bit.

Answer 5

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How to flirt with a guy?
How do you flirt with a guy? Also, is it true that guys find it really sexy if you bite your lower lip? Thanks in advance for your help.

Answer 6

dont so much "flirt" with him, coz then you will just get his sexual interests charged. not a good way to start, not really a sign of a lasting relationship, its more of a fling thing. instead of trying to be sexy and desirable, and getting all nervous and fussing about looking sexable all the time, just be yourself.

showing interest is easy, ask him out! start with a group of friends, hang out with him socially. dress how you feel most comfy. i mean, if u respect urself you will make an effort to look good anyway. were women after all hehe. we like to look pretty. but i mean dont get worried about what to do, like biting your lips or fluttering your eyelashes. they are all just things done to try and lure a guy in. but they ammount to nothing when it comes down to a relationship.

just be real, be yourself, respect yourself AND him, get to know him, be honest, be comfortable to be you. He will appreciate a woman who is REAL. a woman who doesnt grovel or look desperate. a woman that doesnt give him an erection everytime she batts her eyelashes at him (coz then he will be like 'oh no what do i do now, were not even dating!') i mean dont get me wrong, guys love a sexy woman, but i guess what im saying, that making an extra effort to BE sexy, usually makes u look desperate or untouchable, or weird. Just be yourself. that is SEXY.

Answer 7

Let him know that you like him, sometimes guys have trouble figuring it out. Don't try to call him constantly and beg him to ask you out all the time, etc though, because most guys get scared off if they think you are too "clingy". Guys typically follow the same rules (like the don't call the girl until 3 days after the date rule) because girls tend to get the same idea if the guy is calling on her too often. Just let him know you're interested, and then if he knows what's good for him he'll ask you out when he's ready.

~Kyle

Answer 8

ummm first offf you say hi, flirting is not something that can be taught, you just learn over experience.....and no i dont find a girl biting her lower lip sexy lol, i rather hear her moan lol.

Answer 9

The eyes can say soooo much. Let him catch you looking at him. Then, look away. Biting your lower lip, shows nervousness. Smiles are really beautiful, show him yours!!

Answer 10

Just show some part of ur lower body but never be true otherwise you have to pay for it.

Answer 11

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