i have only been with my girlfriend for 9 days but we are in love so i asked her to marry me. she said yes but what will people say when we tell them? especially seeing as we are both girls.
2006-10-09 01:26:39 · 38 answers · asked by nellluvzkell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well.................. I don't know..................... I think my mother will go a bit mental...............But I don't care what everyone thinks........some people might be pleased otheres might not........... i know I am so nah nah!!!!!
Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2006-10-09 01:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kristal L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, I fell in love with my husband after about 2 weeks. However, we didn't get engaged until two years after that.
I'm all for people finding love and their soul mate. If you feel this strongly for this girl- congrats! My only concern is, did your respective families know you were attracted to females before this? If not, then this really might be a shocker to them. If you drop the "coming out of the closet" bomb on your families & friends on top of "we're engaged", I doubt they'll support you because I'm sure they'll think this was lapse in judgement or you've both lost your minds.
I would break the "I like the same gender" news first. See how they react. If they respond neagtively, then I'd hold off on the engagement news. Let them adjust, meet the girl, and then maybe in a few months, you can announce your plans to commit to eachother.
Best of luck!
2006-10-09 02:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish you luck but dont you think ur rushing in2 this jus a little fast. I'm guessing ur pretty young and u probably have a lot 2 learn. My advice is to not tell any1 as you should get to kno this girl better before u take such a big step, and make sure it's 4 real an not jus a phase
2006-10-09 02:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by green cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think its a bit too soon to ask for her hand in marriage?
you dont even know each other after 9 days, You must be in LUST not Love. Sit back and have a good think about what you are doing divorces cost a lot of money and if you decide you are'nt really in love then its going to come to blows.
if you really feel that you are in Love then wait!
it cant hurt to wait and love is something you should never rush anyways!
2006-10-09 01:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by lyniroquai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents got engaged in a couple of weeks! But....my mom was 29 and my dad was 24, so they were older and they fell in love so fast. They knew they were soulmates and viola, they really are! Here's the thing: they figured that everyone was going to think they were crazy but...the only person who was displeased in any way was my dad's mom, but she would be displeased no matter what! Everyone else was like...oh my god, he's the one, or she's the one. It's so right. Somehow it didn't matter that it had only been a couple of weeks. When they saw them together it didn't matter. So you never know.
2006-10-09 02:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got engaged aftetr 2 months of being together, and we're getting marrried on the 2nd of dec, the only thing i can say to you is that if your worried about what ppl will say then u not 200% sure, i didnt care what ppl said or thought, i was happy and thats all that mattered! ppl still dnt believe it but thats how it is!
if ppl are rude or say summit that upsets you just walk away, however don't get stuck in the trap of, i will do this to prove them wrong, because you will regret it then as its all for totally the wrong reasons!
Good luck and congrats! hope you have a long happy life together!
2006-10-09 01:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by GeorgieP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your call - no one else's business. But it doesn't mean you have to rush up the aisle remember... there's never any rush for a wedding - if you love each other then you're over the hard part. It doesn't make any difference to your 'love' whether you're married or not.
And besides, your wedding should be the very best day of your life - why rush it? You'll never be able to relive it once it's over, so make sure it's perfect and everyone's ready.
2006-10-09 01:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to fall in love that fast, believe me, so I don't think theirs anything wrong with you sudden engagement. But I can imagine you are going to come up against alot of negative responses, especially if people don't know your gay, but the important thing is how you and your future wife feel for each other, everything else is just background noise! So just ignore them, there just dealing with there own issues
Good Luck
xxxx
2006-10-09 01:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sadbh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations
2006-10-09 01:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my fiance and we were engaged within 2 weeks. When it is right, you just know. We are getting married on the 1 year anniversary of our first date. His mom and family are very supportive. My family thinks I am crazy. But, oh well. Everyone in my family does agree that this is the happiest they have ever seen me.
2006-10-09 02:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by JENNIFER G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what people will say? I never believed in love at first sight until I met my fiance. We talked about living together after 7 weeks! I remember telling him, "This is crazy!" But, that's how we felt. We are still insanely in love! We aren't getting married until next spring/summer. Enjoy your love!
2006-10-09 02:57:35 · answer #11 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋