"boyfriend" and I go to the same college. he was studying the other day with this girl from his class. she acted a little uneasy when I talked to her. and he introduced me as "his very special friend" not as his girlfriend. They were togeter almost the entire day, saw them leave togther to go get something drink, they came back were together for even more time and then left together for the evening, but I am not sure where they went. He was affectionate the with me while I was around, not sure if she saw. they were leaving togehter for the night I walked passed them and he gave me his jacket because I looked cold and they continued on with each other. Something just seems odd to me everytime he studies it's always with a girl and he will break plans with me to go meet with them rather than reshceduling. i am trying to have trust in him but my friend says that this could be a problem. How so???
2006-10-09 00:54:35 · 14 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him his jacket back and give him the cold shoulder.
He is humiliating you publicly and has little regard for your feelings.
You don't deserve to be treated this way. But because you tolerate it he will walk all over you. Don't you see he has faithful you and her too.
Get a new boyfriend or better yet concentrate on your studies.
happiness and peace
2006-10-09 01:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is right - this is a problem. Is this the only time he has introduced you as his special friend rather than girlfriend - if so it is a problem.
It would definitely be best to ask him directly what is going on - there may be a perfectly good explanation - if not move on.
2006-10-09 07:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is juss playing around with ya. I think he likes girls company a lot and is trying out with all the possible pals juss to see who suits him best. Stay away from such a guy coz u will end up in a heart break.
2006-10-09 07:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by CURIOUS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They sound like a couple- and together the entire day- sounds bad to me= special friend- sounds like a bad deal from a player- flat out ask her in pvt if he told you that you are his girlfriend and confront him-you don't need to be treated like this- D
2006-10-09 08:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are not giving him what he is looking for. Try paying attention to him and doing things like opening doors, paying for meals, driving him places. That kind of stuff to make him feel special. Perhaps this other girl is doing that.
2006-10-09 08:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by wyatt_bellis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know how this is a problem. you already know what the deal is. you are just hoping that someone will say you're wrong. you're not. drop the dog and find a new man who knows how to keep it in his pants. by calling you his special friend he's disassociating himself from you and the relationship.
2006-10-09 08:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by kajunprincezz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling u frankly
ur guy seems to be a playboy
how can he go aroung like that with these girls wen he is with u
have a talk with him if he doesn't leave him right there
i have once got a bf like that
leva him and i can assure u u won't get any regret!!
2006-10-09 07:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should tell him about this problem, ur friends might be right about it. Ask him y he never rescheduling and tell him u feel uneasy about it. Right now conversation is key and its important to express yourself to him.
2006-10-09 08:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by B.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he is having his cake and eating it too.
he has you when there arent any more females around. studying is one thing, but leaving together to get drunks then leaving for the evening is too much.
wake up and smell the coffee. he is cheating
2006-10-09 08:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you put it... Maybe it could be a problem.. but you'll never know.. you might just have seen it in a different way... or misunderstood what he is doing.....
2006-10-09 07:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sapph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋