Thanks for bearing with me! Last night my bf went out to watch football, and then came back when I wasn't in my dorm room. While waiting for me, he went onto my computer and used the internet. Before he came back and when I was in my room, I was bored and looking at stuff online about men and love and dating and stuff from sites like ivillage and askmen.com, etc. He later told me that when he logged onto my computer, he saw that a website called "ask dr. love" popped up. and then he told me that back last year when we first started dating, he saw that I was googling "how to kiss guys" websites. He told me all this with a laugh, and I asked him if he never told me this until now. I felt pretty uncomfortable that he would throw this on me like he discovered me and that I was such a silly little girl. I mumbled something, made something up about the Dr. love thing (b/c I didn't really know what website he was talking about) and got up and left. Thoughts on this? I am confused. HELP!
2006-10-09 00:48:58 · 10 answers · asked by reba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not use talking to him. Because he already have his perception on you set. Whats most important now is for you to show him that his comments did not get to you! When he brings the matter up again, just pretend 'its not a big deal'.
2006-10-09 00:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jagxery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the matter with that...as you said you may not remember it at all, but even if you did it you did it for his own sake...to be prepared, to know things before you make mistake... I think that is why this things are there in web site to make things right while you actually do it...what you did is really good thing go for it...all the time, teach yourself...do it accordingly.... and he would say damn! You are so good...even after many years with you he would be wondering and asking 'how did you do it?'
2006-10-09 01:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Montel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didnt end in an argument i would put it behind you and ask him if he has used Dr Love? get the wine out and have a giggle about it if he was worried he would have made more of an issue out of it.
2006-10-09 00:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly is a petty issue. He just threw that wild of you googling on how to kiss etc...he is just trying to make u feel uncomfy...nothing serious...so juss throw it outta ur lil head n relax!! One more thing...lock your comp with your password...why take chances???
2006-10-09 00:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by CURIOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adulthood isn't something you in simple terms income in one day... looks like the courting is finished. i assume while in a courting you in simple terms ought to not inspect go-examine him lots. in spite of if the guy provides his passwords, why do you should bypass by using his telephone and myspace? in any case somebody extremely can not permit you understand advice on a thank you to be mature, it is extra of a technique.
2016-11-27 02:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he likes the fact that you have not been around the block (in the nicest possible way) I think its cute
2006-10-09 00:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no thoughts about it whatsoever, and i wish that this dilemma was the hardest in your life ever, cos this is such a triffle
2006-10-09 00:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is misunderstanding u. U better tell him truth n make him convinced. I think he will understand.
2006-10-09 01:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by neplizheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw dint stress just call him and tell him the truff
xoxo hope it helped by
2006-10-09 00:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Caitlin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are trying to learn how to please him. Show him how much you have learned Oral Anal and suggest some outdoor 'dogging' action xx
2006-10-09 00:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋