Has sex been better in a relationship or in flings? It is my experience that I perform better when I know her, what works, and it seems more fulfilling in the context of the big picture anyways. Thoughts?
2006-10-09 00:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's different for different people. I like it better with someone who cares for me...In a fling I think people will try things they are scared to try withtheir partner in fear of thinking they are strange....(if your kinky) ...but if you can find a love with someone that will try things new , that is great!
2006-10-09 00:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love in a relationship is better cuz its intimate, between two people that like/love each other, and are able to display their bedmatic skills comfortably and conveniently.
As for flings, its just plain ******* to get the urge out of your system. You don't care if the other person is satisfied or not and it ends there. Not a plus if you ask me.
2006-10-09 07:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAY better in relationships when you both trust each other enough to let each other know what the other wants. Otherwise you just have to guess, or be selfish. You'll be left with the uneasy feeling that maybe it was not so great for her. And I know from experience that someday you are going to wish you had never done it--you'll have to keep it a secret that you are embarrassed to share. Secrets ruin close relationships.
2006-10-09 07:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by sixgun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship sex is better because it's one person you know. You can be creative and spontaneous at all levels if you want. You can also have flings in a relationship if you role play it.
2006-10-09 07:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a relationship. when it's a fling, your always wondering will this be the last time we hook up. that then makes the sex not so enjoyable.
2006-10-09 07:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is better in a relationship,because you get to know a person and if they are doing what they are suppose to do in the bed sex...should never be the same twice ...what you do is give a little each time because if you give all you got....what do they have to look forward too.....keep them in suspense
2006-10-09 07:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by my4boyz1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the way my dad told me, " it's all just a warm sack of **** around your dick " personally, it's more special if your with someone you care about. when a man wants sex, he's going to get it somehow. i'd have to say better in a relationship.
2006-10-09 07:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by BIG DADDY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little from letter A, and a little from B.
Had fun either way. Just depends on the person.
2006-10-09 07:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by drudude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship sex is always better.
2006-10-09 07:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex is always the best, more exciting and married women are THE BEST XX
2006-10-09 07:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋