women making first move?

Question

i'd like the woman to make the first move , partly cause of fear of disapointment.... is it a waste of time to wait for that to happened?

Answer 1

You are born to know this...yes! Waiting for a woman to ask you is a west of time...let meet tell you the stats, ladies who ask a men out are one in thousand...but there you are waiting for a miracle to happen to you...be a man, it is a man's job to ask a woman out.. for a friendship. Being young man, like yourself if you are waiting for a woman to ask you, let me tell you my friend you will be there forever waiting ...before you know it you become old, who is looking for a walking stick than a woman to lane on.... as I said it is your job...do your job...and be paid...no one will do your job for your own boss...but yourself.... as the praise for your good deed is goes for yourself. Let me task you a question what do you loss if got the opportunity ask...will you die? Will any part of you body be hurt...if you fall here, you stand...and you fight for it more tactically than ever..., by the way failure in relationship...that we established or going to establish is a lesson...this is to say that the mistake you made is always a lesson that would never be done ....I do not know why it happens naturally...I advice you to go and do you job...you benefit the either way.

Answer 2

There are all types of women out there, including ones who will make the first move. I would make a first move if I was getting a sense of some connection. Risk of disappointment goes for both sides, no one wants it but relationships would never go anywhere if one side didn't take the risk. Just remember, the moment of rejection is terribly intense the second it happens... it keeps fading away after that. So is it a waste of time to wait? Yes! The sooner you go the sooner you'll know.

Answer 3

It is normal to want the other person to make the first move, sure, because then you will never be wrong about what they want. But they want you to make the first move, too, and the uncertainty can become part of the appeal. Most women like to know if you find them attractive (which I would say is pretty obvious if you make a pass at them). Even if they turn you down, they will be flattered. Just no stalking.

Answer 4

It depends on the woman. I think most like to have the first move made by the other person. However there are some woman who like to be in " charge" so to speak.

Good luck!
P.S You can try letting the other person know that you are interested and then sit back and see what happens. Just don't wait to long!

Answer 5

Stop being a coward. It's normally your role as man. Waiting for women to make moves on you is just plain ridiculous. In my opinion, you are suffering from delusions of grandeur. Just by the weakness you convey, I can assure you wholeheartedly that it's not going to happen.

Answer 6

If you wait for it then it might not happen. Girls like to have a man make the first move, it makes them feel wanted.

Answer 7

Hold your head up high, and just make the move...It's not like she is going to pull out a shotgun and end your life ...all she can do is say no...and then you will know...leave that one alone and move on to the next one...dont worry!

Answer 8

In most cases, yes. If your already in a relationship, talk to her about it, it might be a turn on for her to do so. If your talking about wanting to date someone new, don't hold your breath........I think, and this is just an observation in my experience, They don't want to seem slutty coming on to the guy, so they wait on you to do it. That IS old school, but the only place I've seen the women initiate, is on TV or in movies.

Answer 9

if you dont make the first move you might miss out on the love of your life!

Answer 10

Definitely that is a correct approach.
Like you, the woman also is afraid of rejection.
A woman is also afraid of being taken as one who will go out with anyone.