I'm 18 & never had sex before. I don't watch porn or chat about this openly either. I'm a girl and I suppose I'll have to do it once I get married.. just wondering if it'll be difficult to learn? I'm really scared & do all men want sex after marriage?
Also what's it like? Is it fun? Seems painful, and also absurd? Its like the guy pees from that thing, and its stuck up my own privates? O.o??
Please explain.
2006-10-09 00:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by Ambre Rene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have learnt about this in sex ed.
But sex ed's focus was always more on:
why we should not have pre marital sex
As opposed to actually dealing with it when the time comes.
Also, concepts such as contraceptions, etc were always theoratical & never practical.
2006-10-09 00:16:38 · update #1
I'm really 18! I just live in a society not as liberal as that of the West. I'm a conservative myself & I believe in the purity of my thoughts until marriage. Hope I don't sound too childish.
2006-10-09 00:21:32 · update #2
are you serious? Yes, sex is fun and when you love your partner you will change your attitude towards this subject. It will no longer be sex for fun but making love and showing your emotions to your partner.
Do not be afraid of something that is so emotional. Making love with someone whom you really care its not gross like you think and once you get into it, it will be fun, relaxing, healing and lovely.
Good luck!
2006-10-09 00:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come naturally and you don't need lessons-it may be a little incomfortable the first time- but God made sex=a good thing and it is to be enjoyed in marriage- check out a health book from school= I bet is has enough info- and you sound like you might be much much younger- D
2006-10-09 00:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, men Expect sex after they marry you, and if you are smart, you will read a few books on the subject beforehand... its slightly painful the first time, and getting use to it, but after that, you will like it...its not difficult to learn, and a good husband will make sure you have as much fun as he has...
2006-10-09 00:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to believe that you are 18 and were never taught this in school or at home??? I had sex ed, in 8th grade I was 12
2006-10-09 00:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by blu_222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We go off, its great, couldnt live with out it when your in love its fantastic. Of course you do it after marriage my wife & I do it average twice a day. Thier is more to sex than having a pee pee stuffed into your O'o!!
2006-10-09 00:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a lot of fun. :)
At 18, you should already know about sex (my parents told me about it when I was 4).
Why wouldn't a man want sex after he's married? Women want it too...
2006-10-09 00:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by heaven25star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared. Be a show piece of your mate to be decorated in his bed room.
2006-10-09 00:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its quite normal..............
ull get used to it.......watch some porn nd get used to it then ull be a sex queenn...lol
just let the life flow....cs 1 of the 1st biology lessons was that if ur live u shd do sex...
2006-10-09 00:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Lita fedrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join me and I'll show you. I give lessons on Fridays and Saturdays.
2006-10-09 04:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should watch a porn movie.you don't have to do the oral sex thang unless you are comfortable with your mate.
2006-10-09 00:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋