To kinda familarize you with my situation..... I am a "military wife" . Me and my husband have been stationed here in Hawaii for almost a year. We have a 6 month old, who was born 4 months premature. My husband is currently deployed to Iraq for a year. He's been gone for two months. I know its not unusual to feel a bit overwhelmed because of the situation, but I am really depressed. No family or friends here. Its like I am all alone. We have meetings for the wives and I meet people, all they talk of is how as military wives, we have to stick together. They tell me to call them if i need to talk, when I do, they never answer. I have been stood up three times without an explanation. Everyone is so fake here and it really pisses me off. Its making me think something is wrong with me, and no one likes me. I am so sad. I am so alone and i dont know what to do... please help me!
2006-10-08 23:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
hiya
i have anxiety and i haven't been out of the house for about 7 years i have two young babies and married
we have moved about 6 times and i still have no friends i don't know a single person my husband works all hours so i don't see much of him
i get very lonely and miss my family very much i no there a phone call away but its not the same
take a Holiday and go see them or ask them to come see you
i feel for you and i know how lonely life can be with only your babies for confutation
iam not very good with talking to people but i can do emails so if you need someone to talk to iam only an email away
:0)
2006-10-09 03:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that military life sucks, there is light at the end of the tunnel, it's only a temp. situtation, try and get through it. I know this is'nt much but, I'm in NY, you have no idea how wonderful we think our troops are in Iraq protecting us from another 911, Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc. we always say our prayers for our troops, and wish them a speedy home trip, yes, when I'm eating my turkey, I think of this, it usually wrecks my appetite when I think of someone eating a cold turkey sandwich in a muddy foxhole over there, not being with their family, it sux, we've had that situation in my house before.
2006-10-09 00:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi j,
I can imagine what you must be going through. Especially now u will be so emotionally drained. Why don't you try to get somebody from your side to come and help you out like your mom or aunt. Is it possible to bring any relatives? you please talk to your husband and let him know how u feel. don't suppress your emotions now. Well take care and praying will also help. Do some pranayam and yoga to become mentally strong. All the best
2006-10-09 00:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by gayathri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this website.
www.honolulumommies.com
My wife works at home. This website has helped her make a lot of new friends. Mostly military wives with kids who are new to the island.
Aloha,
Dave.
2006-10-09 06:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Hawaii SEO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is sit back and look at yourself, then at the place you are situated in, then try to find things that will make you and your baby comfortable, once that is done try doin something fun, no matter how selfish it is. after you have done all this and you still feel left out, design a daily routine for yourself 'things that will keep you occuppied for the whole day'
when you are always busy you wont find time to be lonely
2006-10-09 00:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by sbv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times i will also feel like this
We are not bad but why do they make us feel like this
U forget all this stuff
Live for ur self
Develop ur Carrier. prove ur self
develop confidence
then u see ur on the top of the world
2006-10-09 01:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋