what if your bf tells you he loves you but he has someone running second in his heart, apparently, it's your sister? what would you feel? what would you do?
2006-10-08 23:49:42 · 24 answers · asked by misscoyote 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would feel betrayed, hurt, and very angry. I would kick this guy to the curb very fast. Don't let a man come between you and your sister because it will ruin things for you and her and cause a major gap. Your sister will always be your sister and she will always be family, but this loser that you have right now can come and go anytime in your life. I hope that your going to leave him because if he likes your sister that's not a good thing. Even though he hasn't done anything with her it still proves him to be very unloyal to you. You don't need a man like this. If he loved you so much he wouldn't be telling you he had feelings for your sister too. Dump this loser, and find yourself a good man elsewhere that will have enough respect for you.
2006-10-08 23:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
skill she's getting form of tired of her contemporary bf and particularly sorting out the waters with you because of the fact she likes you bodily and in all probability mentally besides. that's what somewhat some women do. some like the protection of a bf or companion with the action of somebody on the area. Get used to it guy and merely take it with a grain of salt.
2016-12-13 04:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop him like a hot rock. Talk to your sister and see how she feels. Tell her what he has told you. If she already knows this I would step aside. A boyfriend like this will continue to have feelings for your sister and even if it stops you will always wonder about it. Hopefully your sister will not be interested in him.
2006-10-08 23:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to stay out of your affairs, and too get her own bf., and as far as feelings, if he's playing you like that it's probably best to let him see another side of you that he hasn't quite met yet. Good Luck!
2006-10-08 23:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him. Good-bye.
It was great he was honest with you, but the sister will not be around for all the bad times between the 2 of you and she will start looking better and better.
2006-10-08 23:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should know that your sister is involved with yr bf if not then
it's good for you then ask your sister to tell him that, she hav no feelings about you(yr bf) so don't try to break the relationship with my sister (you)
got it
2006-10-08 23:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jesu A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real catch.
Two choices:
1 dump him and get yourself a decent guy.
2 Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!
2006-10-08 23:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kindly, yet firmly tell him to stay away until he has made up his mind. He cannot have both. If he chooses your sister then so be it - you have found this out before a lasting committment has been made. If he chooses you, it will take a long time to regain trust in him.
2006-10-08 23:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not much you can do,stay involved and get your feelings hurt or let the relation ship go and deal with the fact that he was honest and may date your sister.I guess it's time to grow up.You'll live,at least he didn't play the two of you.
2006-10-08 23:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest a Ménage à trois!
2006-10-08 23:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ilham Aliyev 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋