im in need of serious help.i started dating this guy in 1999 things wer ok but he seemed a bit imature but we managed2 sail thru a few yez 2gether we always argued a lot and he got in my nerves most times as he always too evrythign as a jok and never serious we wud break up n get bek together coz mostly he had a gud sense of humur and a lovley person but i seem to take advantage of that and just couldt respect him as his childishness always got in the way we finally brok up afta he lied 2 me about his personal life and it brok my heart afta i found out 2 and a half yez afta i started dating him and i lost my trust bt we continued as frenz i left the country bt kept in touch and 2 yez dwon the line i ment another lovely guy who was a flrit adict we had lots of arguements as he wanted 2 maintain an underground relationship bt it made me unstable i lost trust in him.but i love this guy i jus got to the point id had enuff of his hard2 understand bhaviour bt i cant let him go wat shud i do
2006-10-08 23:48:44 · 13 answers · asked by jollybear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem we cant talk and solve anything without an argument and of late i have been dreaming of going back to my ex but i feel he isnt the person i want to be with i want this guy goin back to my x is for convinience not 4rm my heart and jus coz he is a nice person plus i cant stand long distance love .this guy im dating is a lovely person also just that i cant find a better way of sortuing this out with him without starting another fight.im torn apart and stuck recently i brok up with him and told him to look for another girl he refused i told him id found someone else meaning my ex butin my heart i dint mean it i jus wanted time to think bcoz i was refusing sex from him he took it that i was serious he got really hurt and went on to find a girl when he trold me i got jealous and told him i still loved him bt he wouldnt listen to me i love him but im in such a mess i dont know what to do about this he introduced me to his mum and we get along fine bt he hasnt told her we brok up
2006-10-08 23:55:18 · update #1
i really dont know who to choose between them i know my boyfreind has got this girl to get to me but deep down i know he loves me. but at the same time im scared of getting back to the same routine of fighting all the time.its eating me up.we have been dating for almost 3 years and were planning on getting married.i love this guy to bits but what shud i do.he has suffered from depression before and some how is a been aggressive but not violent as such just that he gets so agitated and his short tempered.but we have soem right goo laughs and sex life is very excellent i cant complain about that we manage to talk but when we get to solving problems we just cant settle anything we out a good row
2006-10-09 00:00:18 · update #2
I think you may be the problem here.
2006-10-08 23:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Rudebox77 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dump them if they are stressing you out you don't want to have anything to do with them.. find yourself a man that will respect you and take care of you the way you need to be taken care of.. being friends and companions at the same time.
there are good men out there that don't cause your life to be stressful..
take time off and get yourself together and then start dating all over again.. you will find someone that will please you in all ways. and be a grown up about it.
2006-10-08 23:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real question here is: Who do you love more, yourself or some loser who messes with your head? Think carefully before you decide. Then you will know what to do.
2006-10-08 23:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...
You don't know what the hell you want, and that's the problem here.
You want this, but no, no you don't... hm, maybe you do.. but no, no, you don't... O but maybe...
Make up your bloody mind on what you want.
My suggestion is to move on from him for a while, and if after, say 5months, you can't get over him. Tell him.
But you can't keep changing your mind, does no use.
Decide what you want, then go for it.
2006-10-09 00:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Gracee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
doctor, doctor, i'm under stress. doc" let me look in the dictionary" no you're not. stress is the build up of amounted pressure and the feeling of tiredness. man" my girlfriend say's she's going of me and i don't wan't to start dating again. doc" take a chill pill and make her pregnant, that way she will be under stress too.
2006-10-08 23:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are sure good at writing. WRITE A BOOK. I'm not being sarcastic either. Follow your heart my love, coz they're not nomally wrong. Best of luck to you. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-10-09 00:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by tildypops 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is immature and a liar- dump him and the stress- move on and cut off contact- quit torturing yourself= D
2006-10-08 23:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a life
2006-10-08 23:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by JD417 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
write down the question in english - you have spent too much time abroad!!
maybe its you!!
2006-10-08 23:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
yeh but no but yeh but right
2006-10-08 23:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋