My ex, who has ended our relatonship to search himself and stand himself again without my emotional support, has been still calling me, "everyday", and sometimes twice a day. He sometimes says things like he is so happy to have me as a friend, after all we did for three months. Usually if a guy wants a relationship even to go back to a friendship, they give women some time to digest what has happened, no? He still wants to keep my number as a couple plan for cellphone package..... He told me that we still have some kind of magic between us in future... but I am taking it as a friend, but everytime he calls and afterwards, I remember his soft touch, and smell, and eyes, and all the talks we had. What shall I do? I feel ahamed that I am so emotional. .........What is he doing with me? He has friends, and gets girls easily if he wants to, and he lives 3 hrs away from here anyway...
2006-10-08 23:40:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most people are right and correct answers, he just keeps you in case when can't get any girl, he might doing this with many girls at the same time right now,
2006-10-08 23:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the truth (and I am a guy). He is using you, he doesn't want a true relationship but wants to keep the door open for sex. Period...that is all he wants. Dump the loser, throw away the cell phone and get on with YOUR life. Screw him...but don't rub his face in it. That will make it worse, if you keep this relationship... the just friends crap you will have NO life. He will freak if you go out on a date or have any kind of guy friends. WALK AWAY !
2006-10-08 23:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to listen to that. i m nowhere practically courting counseling, however i might advocate the next. a million. meet in character and speak. mobilephone, chat and so on are unhealthy sort of communique in this sort of subject. pay attention the phrases however seem into the eyes extra and take a look at to determine wherein the concern is. two. say that u are fascinated by looking to paintings it out (if u are) however do not beg or plead. courting with out mutual admire isn't valued at it. pay attention first the opposite part with out interrupting after which well give an explanation for your factor. three. eventually ask if he desires to check out it as soon as once more. if he says sure, opt for a small holiday and believe at peace with nature and each and every different. if there's an extra lady within the situation, desire him success and transfer on gracefully. if the opposite part beats across the bush or restrict all dialog or lie, simply transfer on with existence: the arena has an excessive amount of to present.
2016-08-29 05:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing with you and keeping you as a backup if he cannot get another girl. Just tell him that you just broke up and that you need time alone and give him the cellphone package
2006-10-08 23:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be getting a 2nd chance..if you do make sure you offer more..Oral Anal BDSM Outdoor dogging group whatever he wants..or you face a very depressing future xx God Bless You
2006-10-08 23:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has someone closer to home but wants to keep you around just in case. Cut off all ties. He's a loser. Sorry.
2006-10-08 23:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to keep you as a spare in case he gets lonely. He needs to lose your number.
2006-10-08 23:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being played like a fiddle to me.
You are being used.
2006-10-08 23:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋