i spent the weekend with my fiance , guys it was wonderful, i have only one problem. do you think that it is bad for a girl to show a guy a few tricks or styles (per say ) in bed? i dont want him to think that i am a pervert or something, but i do know that he has less sexually experince than me so would it be bad to sugest any other style besides free style or should i wait until he is ready?will i be intimidating him as a man or what HELP ASAP
2006-10-08 22:58:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I entered my current relationship with quite a bit more sexual experience than my boyfriend, which was quite a transition for me... but he loved it. It's important to remember that sex is a natural human instinct, and more than likely, he'll be happy to follow suit.
If you're uncomfortable about introducing new "positions," so to speak, because you're afraid they might intimidate your guy, you might just try, say, reading "Cosmo" magazine's sex tips together, or "stumbling" across the Kama Sutra in a book store while you're shopping with him, and saying something like, "Hey, up for trying something new tonight?" That way, it will seem more like a new adventure for both of you... he doesn't have to know if it's something you've done in your past unless you tell him it is.
2006-10-08 23:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by xxandra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm. Depends how long you have known him. Unless he is totally boring your a** in bed then you should hold off until later. You should NEVER let on that you learned any tricks from another guy. Go to the store, buy a book, and then pretend that you learned the stuff from there. This way you can also make suggestions of stuff that he might want to do for you after you've done something new for him. This way unless he's a total prude you should be able to spice things up pretty well.
2006-10-09 06:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by stienbabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOT DAYUM WHERE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE? LOL Well that all depends on the guy. Has he asked you how many sexual partners you've had? Zoykes! Guys want to know but dont want to hear the truth if ya know what I mean. Of course this all depends on what you mean by tricks, theres quite a wide variety of tricks out there. Some that could even scare the most experienced. Then you say he's your fiance...how long have you guys been going out anyways? Good luck
2006-10-09 06:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by l800sexaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men love it when a girl takes control in the bedroom and giving you the power now and again is what they want, really. It'll show him you are open to new things and that making him happy is important to you. You will never know unless you try, but the trick is to be subtle about it, he doesn't have to be told you have more sexual experience than he does. Just say you should have a more open and experimental sexual relationship. Enjoy!
2006-10-09 06:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ally B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not able to share your tricks in the bedroom, how're you gonna live with this dude for the rest of your life! And you won't intimidate him unless you're teaching him how to have sex in front of his mates, he'll probably appreciate a few new moves. If you are still paranoid, why not try and work them into your routine by saying "I want it like this" during rather than before hand going "Right, this is how you've to do it".
2006-10-09 06:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Die Cocksucker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should show him what you know, to make it better for you both.
1. You know what you like.
2. He will learn something new.
My husband and I have been married for 11 years. And if one of us hears, or reads about something new, we are usually game to give it a try. As long as it doesn't hurt.
2006-10-09 06:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold back on anything more adventurous.
But, if a paticular style is material to make you feel good, suggest to him. He will never be ready until you teach him.
2006-10-09 06:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Nemrac666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it wouldn't. if your man loves you, he wouldn't think any bad or negative things about you. i think, he might like it if you show new tricks to him. maybe you just have to tell him about it in a good way, sexy way. like teasing him that you just have something in mind that you have been fantasizing to with him for so long that you want to get him in on. he might get surprised on what you can do and would made it unforgettable.
2006-10-09 06:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
This depends on your friends behaviour, if he takes things positive and understands you then you can suggest, but in general there is male ego which comes and change his mind.
so know him and act accordingly, there is nothing wrong in what ur trying to tell him.
all the best & enjoy.
2006-10-09 06:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Koti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to know the guy..if it would be a problem for him dont. If you both have prev experience, and no one is trying to pretend otherwise, then if he can stand it go for it.
2006-10-09 06:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋