or make you feel like you have to explain our movementa or make you feel "trapped" in any way?
2006-10-08 22:44:44 · 15 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh Yeah! It is the worst thing and the first thing that happens when you hook up with someone. Set your boundaries early on and stick to them.
Some are able to comprise and except. but some will not even go there. Time to make some serious decisions.
2006-10-08 22:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES... it does make me feel trapped... :-( i barely socialise anymore like i used to...
But it depends entirely on your partner and what boundries you have put upon one another.. i mean i doubt it you could go to bars with a group of friends and start giving your number out to guys, thats totally wrong, however if your partner trusts you then he will not mind you going to bars.. its all about trust and communication really!
Some couples dont let their partners do anything without them, so they feel trapped and that they cant breathe, therefore i feel that an individual should be able to have a social life without their partner intervening!
2006-10-09 00:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key word here is 'a'; it's having several that doesn't restrict your social life!
If you are not ready to 'settle' on someONE, you should not pretend that you are and you should not have a serious boy / girl friend, until you are!
2006-10-08 22:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No for me I do tell my bf if im going out somewhere so he would know where I am. In case any thing happens he sometimes tell me don’t do this or don’t go there but I tell him this is my life I can do what ever I want I’m not saying that ur not allowed to tell me what u THINK but u can not control what I want.
But if he gives me a good reason to do or not to do this or that then I will do it
2006-10-08 22:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yeah. it's a big factor, i guess. the commitment with each other makes you not available to other people already. however, you can still socialize ,though but only limited. you know what i mean? just with familiar friends and co-workers. couldn't hook up on bars, meeting new folks. it will not be necessary.
2006-10-08 23:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. if you guys trust eachother well enough then you guys wouldn`t really have a problem. but if they always restrict you from your social life, friends, and question you over everything. then you guys have got a problem. just remember, a relationship is based on trust. w/o that trust, it`s nothing. good luck ! =]
2006-10-08 22:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone is honest they yes it WILL do eventually start to effect your social life, but wont to begin with... that's the truth, like it or not
2006-10-08 22:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely NO. As a bf/gf should bring you another new spirit, a new view of how to face daily routine and future life. That's what a gf/bf for. Thinking it over and try to learn which one can complete you. Cheerrss...
2006-10-08 23:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Aii29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without someone i dont have a social life,that why im here on this box of sparks...no life..im antisocial because i feel awkeward going out do much as its not much fun on your own and im dont go out of my way to meet people,if someone wants to talk to me they will...but each to thier own...if someone is making you feel that way be open and honest with them,tell them what it is you need..
2006-10-08 22:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it should give you a much more social life.
2006-10-08 22:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋