Why do a lot of girls feel the need to chase other girls fellas? It peeves me right off, why cant they find their own men? I would never dream of getting into a relationship with a guy who was already attached, but Iv noticed a lot of girls are into that, what is with that?
2006-10-08 22:40:31 · 15 answers · asked by dina_170606 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gotta laugh at you maxtrolle, I hav been with my man for 4 years now n we just had a baby together, I dont need to be jealous, I know he never has and never would go behind my back, we have been thru too much together, I was asking a general question or have you not quite grasped the meaning of "general" yet???????
sad individual lol
2006-10-08 22:49:20 · update #1
Are you for real Jesus? Are you gonna quote EVERYTHING I say lmao and what makes you think I dont have a ring on my finger already???????
2006-10-09 03:50:51 · update #2
I hate those girls to!!I have always thought that us girls just stick together and not let pathetic men make idiots out of us!!I would never get involved with someone who had a girlfriend simply because i wouldnt want it done to me!!Men are too easily led and a bit of flattery from another girl is genna go straight to their head!!
There are plenty of single men,so why waste your time one ones that already have a girlfriend??I dont understand! x
2006-10-08 22:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by jo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Greetings,
You wrote :
"It peeves me right off, why cant they find their own men? I would never dream of getting into a relationship with a guy who was already attached, but Iv noticed a lot of girls are into that, what is with that?"
Isn't that pretty much would you have done as well??? You're living with a guy....unmarried. Technically, you're single and so is your boyfriend. Still looking?? :)
You wrote to maxtrolle:
"I have been with my man for 4 years now n we just had a baby together, I dont need to be jealous, I know he never has and never would go behind my back, we have been thru too much together,"
The fact that you have a baby out of wedlock only shows that you are quite similar in make-up to those women you're peeved at. They're looking for something other than love, some kind of emotional/financial support devoid of logic and of true love.
You write :
"I know he never has and never would go behind my back, we have been thru too much together,"
How do YOU know?? Which is why you both haven't committed to each other in marriage. Your setup makes it all the more easier to run for the hills when things aren't "fun" anymore. So how is that real love??? I've got news for you....it isn't love...it's just more of the same like those women chasing the married guys....it's all about self-interest and irrational expectations.
Good day.
2006-10-09 06:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice question..... i guess it's because some guys only learn to dress well or act maturedly when they already experience being in a relationship. probably that is the reason why a guy who is ok but has no gf is a nobody. but suddenly becomes the school hearthrob when he already has a gf. i guess it's also because some girls realy like the challenge of going after a guy already in a relationship. because they know that he already knows how to handle a relationship.
2006-10-09 05:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care? i think you have a guy and you are quite the jealous type, you are afraid one of these girls will "steal" your man. if he can be so easily stolen, then you never really had him did you? that would mean you arent good enough to keep a man or find the right kind of man. so instead of accepting this, you project your feelings of self hatred onto others, these girls who are just trying to have fun
2006-10-09 05:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They don't do it just because they went to hurt that person but due to the fact that they are crazy about those guys. In other words, I will say it is based on the survival of the fitness.
2006-10-09 05:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because if you want a good decent guy, they are usually taken , so you have to steal one from another girl to get one. The leftovers usually have something wrong with them.......
2006-10-09 05:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by hugh_cheung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls just want what someone else already has.lf they see someone in a good relationship they want it.even if it hurts someone else to get it.perhaps they are to inconfident to start with a frash new in experianced boy like me.
2006-10-09 05:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all becoz some unworthy girlfriends wear a proudy smirk...lol
2006-10-09 05:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iv never beenable to undertsand that either. They give us girls a bad name. i think they do it coz they have low self esteems.
2006-10-09 05:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you.
many are of opinion that known devil is better than unknown angel.
also it is an instinct with many, to grab the what he/she thinks is the best, leaving alone if others own it.
2006-10-09 05:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by RASUNA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋