I'm just starting to date this girl who I think I am falling for a little. She is cute, smart, funny, nice, and pretty. But, there are some things that I don't like. Mainly, she only showers about twice a week. This means that sometimes she is not so fresh. Also, she is a little heavier than what I am normally attracted to. She also talks about her ex boyfriends alot, and rarely says the right thing. It is kinda awkward. We have made out, but not had sex yet. I think I want to keep seeing her, but I'm a little turned off about the above things. Also, I'm not even sure if she thinks I'm sexy or not. Ladies? What do you think? Wow, thats alot of stuff. Umm...what should I do I guess?
2006-10-08 22:32:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok. I guess I should try to find somebody else then? That sucks. I don't want to hurt her. I also don't like being alone...unaffiliated. geez.
2006-10-08 22:41:42 · update #1
well. no bodies perfect. that`s all i can say. but i guess you should let her know about what`s bothering you. things might change. if she really loves you then she`ll change for you but maybe she likes being who she is right now. if so then i don`t think you can do anything about it. but definitely talk to her. good luck ! =]
2006-10-08 22:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl likes you then she will change her ways for you. You definitely need to sit her down and have a chat with her and tell her about your concerns. If i were dating a guy and he approached me with concerns he had about me and i liked him i certainly would change my ways for him. If she ignores you and just carries on talking about her ex boyfriends etc then i think it would be time to move on. If you are in a relationship the last thing you want to hear is about ex partners
2006-10-09 05:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isnt about finding the perfect girl, to me, its about finding the kind of girl who you dont hate being around, nobodys perfect. im pretty sure theres a bunch of stuff wrong with you, i know im not perfect, so if theres something a girl does that turns me off, i just think, would i be happier all alone and by myself?
2006-10-09 05:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like hell and don't look back. I repeat, don't look back. Does she come from trash? Seriously. Also I sensing there is an age difference. Her being older. Do you two live together? Are you peppering her with gifts? .....fact is she's plain stinky so make like a banana and split!
2006-10-09 05:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by l800sexaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why just have sex with her just to have sex with her? if there are that many things that bother you about her the why even try it will only end up bad in the end. fined someone that fits you more then that and someone that showers!
2006-10-09 05:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by SUNSHINE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I'd tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable hearing about her past relationships. Secondly I'd tell her that you like her but that you don't want to make out until she has showered and is fresh.
2006-10-09 05:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating is about finding out whether you are right for each other. If you are not Happy move on
2006-10-09 05:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey JUST 2 letter word answer
LEAVE HER
you shall be an happy man as ur name suggests or u gotta change ur name.
2006-10-09 05:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by chatkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BETTER TALK TO HER AND LETHER KNOW WHAT YOU DONT LIKE IN HER. I AM SURE SHE WILL CHANGE AND TRY HER BEST TO MAKE YOU HAPPY.
2006-10-09 05:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Babs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can only get worst.
Move on.
2006-10-09 05:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋