whenever the "past lover" of your brother or sister asks you to go out on a date, would you agree with the offer/request??
2006-10-08 22:26:46 · 20 answers · asked by sterling 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell no you should respect your siblings
2006-10-08 22:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Purpslinger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never ever date the ex of your brother/sister. I think that causes too many problems. Your family is more important than any ex lover of your brother/sister
2006-10-08 22:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although one may feel morally wrong with a sense of betrayal to his/her sister/brother, one should also ask themselves, is this person the one. I mean this person may actually be the true love of your life. Just because your brother/sister jumped first & hooked up with this person or was in a particular situation where they meet first - should this really be enough to possibly stopping you having true happiness for the rest of your life? And if you did happened to meet your true soul mate, should your brother/sister try & stop you, or hate you? Or should they actually congratulate you? Ok maybe not in the short term. If my brother did that, & I knew that person truely made them happy, I wouldn't want it any other way. I would feel initial hurt but if this person was not right for me, but turned out to be right for him, why should I not want them to have happiness? Sometimes if you love someone, you may have to let them go...
2006-10-08 22:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate my brothers ex, so NO WAY !
But generally...it depends on a few things :
1. If you have a very bad relation to your brother / sister, sure, go ahead !
2. If you have a good relation to your brother / sister you have to imagine that if you fall in love with his / her ex you will have to tell about it some day. If the split up with your brother / sister was a steamy fight I definitely wouldn't do it. If they split up in a friendly way it could be OK.
2006-10-08 22:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i would not date my sister's ex. It is like against some unwritten law to do that, and alot of people's feelings would get hurt in the process anyway.
2006-10-08 22:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by sunflower 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! For example, I respect my sister. She is still friends with her ex.
It would be like having left-overs. I just can't see myself stooping as low as to take up an offer like that. And it would be weird.
2006-10-08 22:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Satinette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's called respect.
There are so many other men/women in the world why limit yourself to your brother/sister leftovers?
2006-10-08 22:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Teena R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy and what my sister would say. i mean if we like each other a lot then i would ask my sister before i even thought about going on a date!
2006-10-08 22:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats tricky, if it was my sister i would talk to her but to know she would have gone through all the same things.... would be weird. it depends what kind of reletionship they had, if it was a silly teen "going out" it may be ok but if they had a "relationship" and were in "love" i think its a no. talk to them
2006-10-08 22:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my brother's ex left him for a woman.Ain't that a kick in your man hood.
2006-10-08 22:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did date my nieces ex hubby. Hmm guess that makes me bad.
2006-10-08 22:37:38 · answer #11 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋