If there was no fight or bad words or anything?
Just... emptiness inside of your heart and terrible hurt?
Everything seems OK, but you feel like you are loosing other person and don't know why.
2006-10-08 22:09:13 · 18 answers · asked by no one 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi erin, don't worry, im feeling the same right now. It happens coz we girls are ultra sensitive when it comes to love. It could be that you are feeling insecure and depressed. That is when such negative feeling comes into you. Learn to be a positive person and even if you happen to lose this person you love, believe me its not the end of the world, just think he may not be the right person for you. God may be having something better in store for Erin coz she worth it. Good luck honey.
2006-10-08 22:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate how you feel with your partner, & try to explore the reason(s) which may have contributed to where both of you are right now. Unfortunately, some people do grow apart. No matter how much time & effort either person may put in to try to resolve what they may think they have, they can never fix it. If both of you do decide to make parting ways, at the very least (if you explore the issues), you may be able to know why.
All the best.
2006-10-08 22:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have too may differences. He likes fencing and motor-racing and you prefer SAFE kind of sports like netball.
Perhaps you are growing apart.
Whatever, if you're not meeting or calling each other as often before, this is an obvious sign that he's not that much into you.
Sorry that you're feeling hurt but better to wake up and re-live than to drown in sadness and depression. You'll meet someone who will cherish you for who you are! :)
2006-10-08 22:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by MyQute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whether what i say will make a difference, but...
YOu already seem to know its all over. These things happen. You only have to work to fill the emptiness inside your heart. Trust me and try to busy yourself with something...anything you like. But you'll have to wait because sooner or later, you'll get someone who'll be yours finally. Until then, hang in there and try to smile :-)
2006-10-08 22:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by nauts 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know it's over. Your real question is "why?" You have to ask him that one.
Meanwhile, write a sad song about it. It's theraputic, and you already have a running start with the way you word things.
Good luck to you!
2006-10-08 22:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to your feelings, if you feel that things are no longer the same, give it a bit of time to see if it's only a phase. If the feeling worsens, it's probably over.
2006-10-08 22:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is just a case of insecurity or depression. But when there is no longer a feeling of connection it is over.
2006-10-08 22:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
May be the feelings is bad.. but you know,, giving more time to be insure about that feeling, or when when you find the feeling is the same. then you know what to choose.
2006-10-08 22:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by soraf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "maybe he's not that into you" and watch for the warning signs next time. Sorry you are hurting :(
2006-10-08 22:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by extraordinareality 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyday feels like a chore and you enjoy going to work to get out the house.
2006-10-08 22:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Paul S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋