I just met a guy yesterday and I already like him soo much. Yesterday was our first date, and we hit it off so well that we didn't want it to end and he ended up spending the night at my house and leaving this morning (we messed around but didn't have sex all the way). I don't think either of us were expecting to click so well. Well in the morning before he left he hugged me and said we should do something next weekend and then kind of stood in the doorway looking at me and smiled before he left. Then all day today I can't stop thinking about him and feel all tingly when I think of him. Well I was kind of expecting him to call me or email me today. Do you think he should have? Is it too soon? Or is he maybe trying to play it cool and wait awhile before he contacts me again? I'm afraid he has decided he doesn't like me after all.
2006-10-08 20:17:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is WAY too soon for him to be calling you. If he just left this morning, then I wouldn't expect a call for at least two days. LISTEN TO ME!!! ACT LIKE IT DIDN'T BOTHER U THAT IT TOOK 2 DAYS FOR HIM TO CALL!! Also, keep urself busy, so that when he says, "So, what have u been up to?" You have somethings to tell him, instead of, "Oh, just checking my email every 5 seconds, and asking anonymous questions about u on Yahoo! Answers."
Guys don't like it when we like them that quickly........Just like we don't like them when they show that they like us too much, too soon.
2006-10-08 20:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have some feelings for him. Thats exciting. Remember just because your expectation was for him to call right away that may not be his expectation of when he should call. There is no set time of waiting. I have had guys call me the next day, or several days later -one didn't call for a year! But if a guy really likes you I would think he should call within 3 days. Hopefully he is feeling just as excited as you! If not, as the saying goes, "he's just not that into you." I wouldn't call him first though. Good luck!
2006-10-09 03:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No by the way it sounds I think he does like you! But not all guys are the kind of guys that call right away, maybe because guys usually try and play it cool (like u said) but that doesnt mean he isnt interested. Just dont worry about it and wait to see if he calls you up by next weekend, then you will know for sure. If he doesnt call by then then just scratch him off your list and move on. But I know a lot of guys that dont call unless they want to see you that day, some people are just like that :)
2006-10-09 03:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 day rule, 3 day rule!!! Wait woman, don't be so eager. Have some self restraint. dont be the first to call him.
2006-10-09 03:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you are too excited haha. Calm down he will contact you
2006-10-09 03:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it if he doesn't contact u by today. I know its hard but its a reality
2006-10-09 03:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh. im almost in the same situation as you.
2006-10-09 03:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes he should
2006-10-09 03:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by lava lad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋