With an exception of one guy they have to be atleast 15 yrs older in order for me to be attracted to them. Why could that be?
2006-10-08 20:14:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they happen to be more mature...girls mature way faster than guys n i bet u feel like all the guys your age are so immature?
2006-10-08 20:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so am I, I think I like to feel taken care of, and adored by a real man, not a boy. I am not attracted to boys at all. It's bad to marry these men though, because they make you feel safe, and help you learn things, and take care of you, and they'll rock you in there arms and call you there baby, and I just love it. The older a guy is, the more I get those warm feelings. I picture an older guy as nice, and comforting, and younger guys I am just plain afraid of. I have been hurt more often by younger men. Older men just want to be my dad, and take control and I like it, but one day we will grow up, (metaphorically speaking) and we will learn all we have to learn from them, and we will outgrow them. It seems they are using us, because we're young and pretty, but we are really using them, WEIRD. OK, I have given it some thought, and I think it's because we we're over protected as children, thinking that the world is an un-safe place, we seek someone to shelter us. I personally might even have an older man, to relinquish some responsibility. It's a mirage. An older man expects so much more, because there old fashioned, like doing all the work and chores in the household, taking care of the kids, all the work, it is more responsibility. I think it's a fear thing. Maybe I'm wrong, but leaving my older man seems so hard, even though we are lacking things in common.
2006-10-09 14:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with your relationship with your father. Most likely you didn't have as good of a relationship as you wish you had with him or you can't gain favor in his eyes for some reason. This makes you attracted to older men. No it doesn't mean you want to have sex with your dad, but it is a psychological thing that makes you want the older men.
There are a lot of women out there like that now due to the high divorce rate and broken families in the U.S.
2006-10-08 20:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Payne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be calling yourslef exotic chica. and way too young to be dating. do your homework instead. About the guys, most women seek out men 2-4 years their senior.
2006-10-08 20:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you are looking for a "Man", and most of us guys have FINALLY started growing up after 30+, it's true! :)
(I'm still trying to grow up....LOL)
2006-10-08 20:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish to find a girl like you.
2006-10-08 23:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by aahamed24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just ur mentality that u like them.
2006-10-08 20:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Frank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are looking for a father figure
2006-10-08 20:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by nothere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tend to be attracted to men who understand your nature ............and they possess maturity and seriousness beyond their years
2006-10-11 14:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably replaces your father
2006-10-08 20:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by keoni_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋