I'm nineteen years old and have lots to experience. I met this guy this weekend and was sexually attracted to him. I met him through a mutal friend and was hoping that something would happen between later that night...and it did finally we didn't hook up but we messed around and it was fun, but messing around with him was different than it has been w/guys in the past. He didn't push the sex issue and was caring and gentle and sweet. He didn't just want to mess around he wanted to just hold me and let me sleep next to him while he held me. The next morning he walked me out and said goodbye gave me a kiss and hug. (somthing i've never had b4 from messing around) So i'm attracted to him more than just sexually and want to know what to do about getting in touch with him. Should i ask our mutaul friend to talk to him or give me his number? Or wait and see if he asks about me?? HELP!!!! I'm confused and looking for some answers!
2006-10-08 19:52:10 · 11 answers · asked by Lovekissin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it i mean what have u got to lose just do it u wont regret it
2006-10-08 19:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by icaboe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only things you'll regret in life are the chances you did not take. Don't ever wait around for a man. Doing so could leave you old and alone wondering how that happened. If you want him, go and claim him, you have nothing to lose except the opportunity to be with a potentially wonderful man.
2006-10-08 20:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by FrasierFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed around with a guy whos phone number you dont even have you know how he is in bed but you dont know if he has aids or any stds I think you need help I would not drop my pants that easy rember what you do now you might have to deal with again down the road.
2006-10-08 19:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Steve A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-08 19:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by jjs l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first time a man shows some restraint and you think it's something more to you now? Honey, you're young, and horny. I think it's admirable that you met a man and not a boy. But don't confuse his restraint for you being "in love" or thinking this may be something "more". He merely showed restraint and he's mature.
I wonder why you feel that you are not worth that restraint or think something might be wrong with you because he didn't hit it and run like most guys. Because he's not a guy, but a man.
I think you need to slow things down, honey and get thee to a therapist pronto.
2006-10-08 19:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like he is used to a girl not giving out on 1st date,he has been trained already,be careful if you come across to easy he wont want you long.god blessed guys with two heads,but only gave them enough blood to think though one,so when they are aroused the yr not thinking clear.i would have her to give him your phone # that away you put the ball in his court!
2006-10-08 20:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by stcgoodman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you are attracted to him, but before you get seriously involved, sexually, get to know him better first Too much dieases and unplanned pregnancies in this world. anyway be careful, God bless Have fun.
2006-10-08 19:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by tani n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he is a real Man, ask your friend for his number,
2006-10-08 19:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon you should wait a while to see if he tries to contact you first - I hope it works out - he sounds really lovely.
2006-10-08 19:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by rochelleslomovits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nineteen and have lots of experience, so why you asking?
2006-10-08 19:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋