2006-10-08 19:51:11 · 27 answers · asked by Ray L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should hang out with the friend simply because if you just broke up with your g/f, she'll see her friend with you and then their friendship will most likely end because your ex girlfriend will feel very betrayed by both of you. Not a pretty picture!
2006-10-08 19:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship with the ex gf. If she's still a freind and you want to keep it that way, I'd stay away from the friend. If not, go for it!. There's a chance it'll hurt the gf and friend's relationship. Or you may come into contact with the ex through the friend. Other than that, you cut ties with the gf, so you're not obliged to not see others. That includes friends of the ex. Just keep in mind the possibilities I mentioned.
2006-10-09 03:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are two roads you can take on this one. These are the times and situations that challenge a persons character.
1. Just say, hey, i'm young and only live once, roll with it.
2. Take the high road and say, dang, sounds cool but breaking up is never easy for either of the two people, i don't want to make anyone feel worse than they already do by suddenly hanging with their best friend.
Good luck.
2006-10-09 02:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by divad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go hang out with her for two major reasons.
Your ex could be using her friend to check to see how you are doing.
Or, do you really want to get it on with your ex's best friend. That sounds way too complicated a situation to be in a for a guy who's just broken up.
If your ex's "best friend" is after you, man, your ex's friend is kind of a skank and not much of a friend to your ex.
2006-10-09 02:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ed A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends on if you want to stay friends with your ex-gf. If not, then go pork the best friend. However, be careful because you are walking into dangerous territory. Even if you don't get busy with the best friend the gf will think you are getting nasty with her. Also, you should consult the best friend about it because the gf will inevitably hate her as well.
Keep in mind that all women are impossible to predict and impossible to understand.
2006-10-09 02:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Payne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends, are you friends with her as well? Because if so she might just want to be a good friend and be there for you. Go hang out, doesn't mean that when you break up you can't have friends.
2006-10-09 03:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her friends. They're off limits. Also, don't you think it is a good idea to wait just a little before you start going out with girls again? It's as if you don't care you just broke up with someone.
Don't be selfish and risk ruining HER friendship with this girl too. Don't you have any respect at all for your ex?
2006-10-09 02:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should distance yourself from your ex 1 to protect your self from what could be a sticky situation the best friend could have motives you know nothing about maybe she is mad at her friend and trying to hurt her or maybe your ex wants to how you are doing just to check up. 2 the past is gone why enclose yourself in a circle surrounded by the past it did not work nothing will change that 3 find new happiness break off completely for both of you life is to short to be unhappy. good luck
2006-10-09 03:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by i can help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This best friend is a ho. Rule of thumb in friendships is the bf or gf is offlimits to the other even when broken up with.
You don't want the drama. Trust me.
2006-10-09 02:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a trick to check you. Maybe your gf just wana see if you really loved her and serious about her. I advice you not to hang out with her frend,,Better find some another chic :)
2006-10-09 02:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by cool w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋